<p>athenegoddess- I know many attorneys who have very successfully been able to balance a family and a career. But as I stated earlier most of the attorneys I know work for Government- Insurance Companies-Banks etc.<br>
Their work day closely follows the 9-5 work schedule. And accrual of vacation/personal days that most large organizations have as a benefit, enables a working mom or dad to take time off for that school play or soccer game.
It is a major life style decision that you may have to make.</p>
<p>You may not get the real big bucks or ego fulfilling prestige, but you can get a relatively balanced life style if you follow the career path of working for government, insurance company or similar organization.<br>
Of course the downside is that you may be burdened with a heavy debt load for a longer period of time.</p>
<p>There are other options out there besides “BigLaw and the Big Bucks”.</p>