My roommates and I split the kitchen stuff. One bought dishes, one pots, one glassware and I brought the silverware. We lived together two years. That silverware was then used for 25 years after graduation by me, DH and kids. My daughters now have it at their apartment. Only one spoon has disappeared in all that time. The other roommates also used their stuff for several years after graduation. So it might not get destroyed, etc, but it’s best to not plan on that.