<p>Here's an interesting question for ya: I like two girls that I know. One of them is a freshman in college, she really likes me and we have fun, but she doesn't want to date. I think it is because I am younger than her, thoughts? The other girl is the same age as I, and she knows I like her, or at least I think she does. We were good friends but now we don't talk so much anymore. Is it my fault for not making a move or should she have picked up on it and tried to help me out?</p>
<p>wow, the fact that your posting about your love life on here is qutie funny, I'm not sure how competent other people ont his forum are in regards to love life.</p>
<p>How right you are, but what can it hurt, I'm not going to take stupid info and try to use it, just a learning experience, or something....</p>
<p>There's quite a gap between HS and College. Maybe you're just not what she's looking for at that stage in her life. Or perhaps she thinks of you as a younger brother type and you are deluded. </p>
<p>Take the initiative with the other young lady. Just do it. She'll like ya for that.</p>
<p>I'm quite competent.</p>
<p>Zulinlaw,</p>
<p>In regards to the older woman, you should simply ask. It may just be that she's too busy. It may be what you think.</p>
<p>As far as the other woman... yeah, you probably blew your chance.</p>
<p>See here is why this is a predicament. I like her, she knows it and we have been friends for over two years. I think she needs to meet me part of the way, you know.</p>
<p>right right. I think I did blow it with the other girl, but the college girl on the other hand. I already asked her and we already talked about it. But she likes me a lot, I make her laugh, we have fun when we go out and stuff, but she doesn't want to date, it's a tad odd to me.</p>
<p>Which one? Older or same age?</p>
<p>the older one. I agree with you when you said I blew it with the one that was the same age. But the older one I'm not too sure about.</p>
<p>lols this is pretty funny. you're asking online about your personal love life, instead of one of your better friends.</p>
<p>btw, when i saw the title of this thread, it reminded me of russell peters:</p>
<p>somebody gonna get a hurt real bad.</p>
<p>dude I saw that recently, that thing is so funny. good call on the reference there slurpz. Yeah see if I cared about keeping my love life private then I wouldn't have posted it on the internet.</p>
<p>you mean <em>since</em> you cared about keeping your love life public. since personally, i think your real-life friends are gonna have better advice for you since they know you/the girls/or both</p>
<p>yep but I bother them enough about it. I really don't care if I ask you people about it though.</p>
<p>zulinlaw,</p>
<p>About what you said:
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but she doesn't want to date, it's a tad odd to me.
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<p>Maybe she's just not looking for a relationship right now. College is a confusing time for frosh.</p>
<p>very true. Well we did talkt about it and she said at least for now. Maybe in time she will come around.</p>