<p>Girls like when you treat them like crap...</p>
<p>^^ It worked for me!!!!</p>
<p>A girl is looking for a "tuff" guy. It's stupid but true! Girls will denie it here but that's what they prefer! If you treat them nice and be really sweet, it won't work, trust me! Blow them off once, then talk to them later, you'll see it's magic!</p>
<p>^^ I agree with that. A large portion of college girls want to be treated like that. They haven't matured psychologically and emotionally yet. Wait till they're out of college and get some sense knocked into them. That's when they'll go for the nice guys that make decent money.</p>
<p>Too bad i just realized it this year!</p>
<p>"A girl is looking for a "tuff" guy. It's stupid but true! Girls will denie it here but that's what they prefer! If you treat them nice and be really sweet, it won't work, trust me! Blow them off once, then talk to them later, you'll see it's magic!"</p>
<p>Actually, yeah. Well im a high school senior, and i have found that if you make fun of girls, but jokingly, kind of embarrasing them, but not enough to make them angry at you, makes them really like me. The think its funny i guess or something, and then they always want to do things with me, go places and hang out, even if i barely know them much at all.</p>
<p>yeah because it shows you are funny, not uptight, and like joking around....girls like that...."tuff" guys usually get all the girls because they have more confidence and don't really care if one single girl ditches them</p>
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i have found that if you make fun of girls, but jokingly, kind of embarrasing them, but not enough to make them angry at you
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I think that's a little bit different from the tough they are talking about. They were talking about treating someone like crap, ditching them, etc.</p>
<p>jokingly making fun of a girl is cute and flirty. Otherwise, girls will just think you are a jerk (although some girls fall for them)</p>
<p>I liked nice guys before but they are too ambiguous and pushed around for me so... I don't know what I like anymore. Girls like having their territory, (ie THEIR MAN) and nice guys (by being nice to everybody else, including other GIRLS) will just get them mad. (probably will get stressed out or get jealous) I would get really mad if my boyfriend treated me like everybody else... like why go out with this person if he'll just treat me like a friend?? :/</p>
<p>And I think the reaosn girls like 'tough' guys is because of the challange.. or something like that. Like thinking they could change him (they won't, but they like to believe that anyhow) or they feel special when the guy's only nice to them afterawhile.</p>
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I would get really ticked off if my boyfriend treated me like everybody else...
I agree... not about the rest, at least not for me personally (this is one part of life where I'm not looking for a challenge), but this part was spot on.</p>
<p>I just think most girls need validation and it intrigues them when a guy isn't quick to give it to them. Most girls think guys turn into slobbering idiots the second they see boobs, so when you act like you could care less...they're automatically interested in you. It makes no sense to guys because we're logical and women are emotional, but the point of girls wearing skimpy clothes is to get you to look away. Even a good-looking guy can blow it with a girl if he acts too interested.</p>
<p>I agree with your reasoning, but there's certainly a difference between acting uninterested and treating someone like crap.</p>
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It makes no sense to guys because we're logical and women are emotional
Reading this thread, I have concluded that I must secretly be a man.</p>
<p>I've met one girl that was completely rational - she goes to Caltech though (this is not a slur towards the school or anything).</p>
<p>In general, women are far, far, far more emotional than men are. Of course, men are also emotional to a certain degree, but are not as easily influenced by present circumstances. After all, I don't think a woman could ever game me but this is far from the case with girls at my school, where they get gamed just like that.</p>
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I agree with your reasoning, but there's certainly a difference between acting uninterested and treating someone like crap.
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<p>Psychological dominance is totally sweet, phuriku.</p>
<p>BTW, fat, short and <em>ugly</em> people can get chicks. It has been stated before that men have a mixed blessing - they either got the looks, or they can work on their game.</p>
<p>As a case-in-point: My RA last year was a big Southern boy (a euphemism if you will), but he dressed extremely well, and had a decent haircut. The dude got more a ss than a toilet seat, and the girls he picked up were smoking hot. He even had a lot of cheerleaders when he transfered to Georgia Tech, DESPITE the fact that the ratio is very much skewed there. There were other fat people in my dorm too, but all they did was play video games and Magic the Gathering all the time, probably because they didn't bother to step up their game.</p>
<p>Men, I expect no excuses.</p>
<p>About acting uninterested, why is it important to act uninterested? Why can't a guy just genuinely care? Why does it seem like he has to play a game of caring, yet seeming like he doesn't?</p>
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About acting uninterested, why is it important to act uninterested? Why can't a guy just genuinely care? Why does it seem like he has to play a game of caring, yet seeming like he doesn't?
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<p>Key word: Game.</p>
<p>^ Key word: Women.</p>
<p>Every trivial thing matters to them. Everything is a game.</p>
<p>DISCLAIMER: This only applies to young, immature women.</p>
<p>^Says the guy who sits in his room and studies all day.</p>
<p>I completely see where you're coming from though. Props bro.</p>
<p>You never said it wasn't true... and so what if I do study all day. I escape from the pressures of my empty-headed peers in order to concentrate on making something of myself. Is this bad?</p>
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<p>Okay, I've been pondering over this lately.</p>
<p>How do you know if you're attractive enough for a woman?</p>
<p>That kind of attitude and questioning, "Is she in my league?" or "Am I good looking enough?" will guarantee most women won't be attracted to you. Convey confidence, cockiness and humor and you'll be attractive to almost all females.</p>