<p>Aye, but you do need to have a certain level of good-looks to be able to attract that cute girl you like. Girls will laugh at any joke that a good looking guy will make, funny or not. And obviously, good looking guys will exude more confidence than average or beat guys.</p>
<p>To the person upthread who said there's a difference between acting uninterested and treating her like crap: you're right, but you're wrong. Acting uninterested is really only part of it. </p>
<p>You don't have to be a good looking guy to get cute girls. Like I said, women are more emotional. All you have to do is get them to like you, and you're in. Good-looking guys might have an advantage in terms of first impressions, but as an average looking guy you don't have to worry about the first impression. She's probably not even paying attention.</p>
<p>yeah i agree with that ^^</p>
<p>I have a ton of gorgeous girlfriends who are going out with... let's just say... not the best looking guys. But however, the guys treat my girlfriends really nicely... they'll call her, bring her flowers, remember little things, listen when she needs someone to talk to, remember conversations, etc. if you can do that, and you're not totally unfortunate looking, you can get a pretty attractive girl.</p>
<p>haven't you seen those gorgeous girls with the average guys?</p>
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<p>Who?</p>
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<p>how do you know???</p>
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Aye, but you do need to have a certain level of good-looks to be able to attract that cute girl you like. Girls will laugh at any joke that a good looking guy will make, funny or not. And obviously, good looking guys will exude more confidence than average or beat guys.
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<p>Perhaps, but you shouldn't dwell on this. Personality always wins over looks.</p>
<p>hey big brother 1984,i cant get into a relationship with anyone. can i get into a relationship with u? plzz? i hope this attempt succeeds</p>
<p>This thread hasn't died yet...</p>
<p>nope, we love talking about why people can't get dates.</p>
<p>This is truly a great thread. Very entertaining still.</p>
<p>Props to the guys in this thread who aren't afraid to be honest...</p>
<p>Well - you know - there are robot dolls. I'll probably date a robot doll when I get the money</p>
<p>well back to what people were discussing earlier...about heights....I don't understand why a lot of girls find 5'10 or 5'11 to be "not tall enough". Some girls even find it SHORT?! what the hell? From my own observance, experience, and comments on this forum, most of the girls want their guys to be 6 feet and over...I seriously don't understand this... I mean, Brad Pitt is 5'11 for god's sake...is it because he is good looking that it balances out his height? (even though 5'11 is pretty darn tall)</p>
<p>huh?....i dotn remember saying any vulgarity..that's odd</p>
<p>I'm 6'1, so this isn't sour grapes, but what I don't understand is how we chalk up women almost exclusively being attracted to guys over 6" as being a matter of preference, but when guys say they aren't attracted to anything below a C cup, it's because we're horn dogs.</p>
<p>^ Actually howell from what I've seen people are more likely to call women shallow for professing physical preferences than they are men.</p>
<p>LOL where have you seen that?</p>
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<p>I've never heard any guy say that.</p>
<p>By the way, this thread has been running even longer than the normal 10+ page threads on girls/relationships.</p>
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<p>Nah, that's maybe slightly above average. It's not really 'tall'. Tall begins at 6ft2, 6ft3.</p>
<p>Just don't be afraid to make a move. GREAT way to avoid the friendzone.</p>
<p>vicissitudes: I have. My point wasn't that it's a common sentiment; it's a double standard.</p>