<p>I like Indian guys, and I'm white..</p>
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<p>Of course, there are exceptions. Why don't you clone yourself so that there are more people like you lol. What is it that you like about them?</p>
<p>Shaggy-haired Indian guys who always have at least a 5'o'clock shadow are pretty hot, but I don't like the really metro ones. </p>
<p>I dunno what it is exactly..maybe because they're generally smart & liberal. And good dancers :)
Plus, culture def. intrigues me because I'm as American as apple pie haha</p>
<p>haha good to see people like you are there.</p>
<p>I'm 5'5 and I have dated guys ranging from 5'4 to 6'4. Height really makes little difference- and if it does, then do you really want to be dating that kind of girl?</p>
<p>In any case, you just sound kind of whiny to me. That might be a problem.</p>
<p>Height does make a difference, especially if you're trying to make a good first impression on a girl. Assuming both guys are good looking, which one would you approach first in class on the first day of school (you don't know both of these guys) or at a party - the 5'7 guy or 6'2 guy?</p>
<p>haha i'm glad i could rekindle some hope..</p>
<p>Dude, why does everyone have so many stereotypes in mind?</p>
<p>Because they are so true!! You'll find out once you come here.</p>
<p>I refuse to be called neurotic.</p>
<p>haha its not just you, but women in general.</p>
<p>Which is a stereotype. Doesn't fit me. I'm a woman.</p>
<p>But we'll need to ask your guy friends (some who may like you) to confirm that!</p>
<p>ask away, considering I'm the one who tells them to calm down, and I've seen them cry, and they haven't seen me cry...</p>
<p>and no, they don't like me. We've talked about it.</p>
<p>I agree with SilverClover, I think whoever's whining about it is just being whiny. Get some cojones and deal with your insecurities before you start going after girls. Girls can tell if guys are insecure about something, even if they pretend they aren't.</p>
<p>''Height does make a difference, especially if you're trying to make a good first impression on a girl. Assuming both guys are good looking, which one would you approach first in class on the first day of school (you don't know both of these guys) or at a party - the 5'7 guy or 6'2 guy?''</p>
<p>5'7 guy. The 6'2 guy would just tower over me and make me feel very intimidated wheras with the 5'7 guy I could see his eyes which is always good and I would feel more comfortable. How would guys feel if you were having a conversation with some girl a foot taller?</p>
<p>And to the person who said this had nothing to do with the guys personality maybe not but he did say that girls say he makes a good first impression but then they want to be friends only so they are obviously physically attracted to him .</p>
<p>I'm only 5'3'', and height is not an issue as the vast majority of guys are taller than me anyways. </p>
<p>Looks might get someone interested, but personality is what keeps them interested. If a lot of girls flirt with you but none stick around, I think that the latter is the bigger issue. Sometimes guys are insecure in the sense that they do flirt, but never really make a move. Have you asked out a girl, or are you just waiting for them to come to you? Be proactive! :)</p>
<p>The height thing is a copout. Sure, there are some women who won't date a guy who's shorter than they are, but even my shortest male friends have had some pretty hot girlfriends. I'm 5'10", and I've dated guys who were shorter than I was. More often it's guys who are too self-conscious and wussy to date someone taller than they are--in high school, I had guys tell me straight out they thought I was hot but that dating someone taller than them would be too embarrassing.</p>
<p>Guys who are confident, secure, smart, funny, interesting and not afraid to approach people they're interested in will get dates regardless of height, period.</p>
<p>To the OP, I wouldn't buy into this height BS. Having that "I'm not attractive enough" mindset is exactly what puts you dead in the water. And Wutang, why are you railing against this heigh issue again? I just read in some post that you found a gf, figured you'd stop bickering by now.</p>
<p>OP, your problem is probably that you aren't agressive enough or showing your interest early enough. Even if a girl is real into you, there's a short window where have to make your move or her attraction seems to magically vanish.</p>
<p>i enjoy wutang because he just purposely goes out there to hit people where it hurts. Its fun online, but in real life, that could be really annoying. Anyway i dont know if i buy into this height stuff, i have never thought about it, and from personal exp (im 5'8) i do ok with the ladies, and shorter friends of mine do not struggle either</p>