<p>"but will guys date fat girls"</p>
<p>hahahahaha</p>
<p>So girls won't date short guys but will guys date fat girls?</p>
<p>-um, what? So, as a fat girl (something you can control but simply too lazy to) you feel entitled to date a tall guy?
You do realize I can't change my height. You CAN change your weight. If I didn't work out, I would be fat.</p>
<p>BTW, I would never, ever date a fat girl. Not in a million years. I'm short, and the girls I've dated were perfect weight. I'd rather remain dateless for periods of time than date fat chicks. It reflects poorly on your personality.</p>
<p>Wutangfinancial after reading your post in this thread and the height thread, you sound very naive and self-centered. decided to ignore your comments from here on. sue me</p>
<p>well technically you could change your height (there is a surgery) but i heard you can't walk right for like a year. Yikes!</p>
<p>This thread is so funny</p>
<p>So much bs!</p>
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<p>You don't have any luck with the ladies because they have recognized you for what you are - an insecure, arrogant, impotent little man. You are superficial, lacking any priorities or redeeming qualities, other than your narcissistic self-assurance that you are attractive and physically fit. You care more about yourself than others, and probably have never been loved by anyone, which is why you have developed your personality disorder.
It's ok, nobody's perfect, though. I'm blunt, for instance.
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<p>Normally I would agree with you. But doesn't anyone notice that he's just ignoring all of you? You simply can't take him down if he won't take the bait. </p>
<p>And troll or not, he still has some good advice - backed up by several other posters.</p>
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Uh did you guys NOT READ the 2nd part???
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<p>You still showed preference for taller men though, saying that they're "hot". Don't blame us men that we can read you like a book.</p>
<p>Dude, not to dog you out or anything, but don't go listing all your stats up front (I'm charming, I work out, and I've been told I'm very good-looking) until you actually have some dating experience. The girls who told you that might've been trying to be nice. Not to say you're ugly, but...yeah.</p>
<p>I think a lot of guys who are inexperienced in dating seek out pats on the back from their friends, and then go out expecting any sane woman to see the same things their friends see.</p>
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Normally I would agree with you. But doesn't anyone notice that he's just ignoring all of you? You simply can't take him down if he won't take the bait. </p>
<p>And troll or not, he still has some good advice - backed up by several other posters.
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<p>Indeed, he is paying or heeding any attention or my words or anyone who disagree with him, but I'm not trying to bring him down. I'm trying to keep him from bring other people down which is what he doing. He is going around telling people that anything under 5' 10" is doomed. </p>
<p>Like I said, he does speaks of some truth.</p>
<p>However, he mixes alot of truth with exageration and misinterpretation and present it in a way that all it will accomplish is to discourage people. Posters here are looking for advice and direction, but he is telling them that all short people are screwed for life. All actions will be interpreted in a bad light, girls will only go for big, brutish males who are like caveman and a complete jerk. Then says the only hope is to get super rich and treat her like something off a shoe. All because of... height? </p>
<p>He make things sounds so grim that you might as well give up. Yes, girl like taller guys like we like prettier girls, but it is not the only thing either side based our (subconsious and unsubconsious) on. Yes, women like "alpha males," but its not because they are big, mean, and brutish, but because they have the backbone to make a move, be confortable with themselves, willing to say what should be said (instead of the nodding nice guy), and be genuine. Yes, women are based on emotion when it relationships... but relationships require attraction, attraction is not a choice, if the guy don't like the girl, he would act the same way. </p>
<p>Wutangfinancial is mixes and focus on that far too much for anyone's good. Also only two posters are backing him up, and it is more about his statement about the jerk than the height.</p>
<p>"impotent little man"
you just lost the argument by displaying your prejudice against shorter men. Being short is not a deficiency of character or integrity; inability to control one's eating habits is. Women often confuse a man's height with his so called "personality"-fact is, personality doesn't mean anything for women. Of all my male friends, none have been rejected because of "their personality." When people are rejected in college, it is because said person thinks they can find a more attractive mate. That's it. In fact, women would rather share a man who is coveted than be exclusive with a man who is not-so much for the women prefer relationships theory.</p>
<p>A 5'7 Asian man not getting girls is not a product of a bad personality-that is extremely insulting to the OP. He is not getting girls because women are prejudiced against short Asian men. </p>
<p>Where is the "I'm a 6'2 blonde white guy, and I've never had a girlfriend! Help!" You'll never see it. And that's because 6'2 blonde pretty boys, regardless of their personality, will never have a problem. They can even be rapists, as seen in the Duke lacrosse scandal, and women will defend them more vehemently than a short man on a message board.
I keep posting actual empricial evidence, peer reviewed studies and the like...while my adversaries post silly emotional, anecdotal dribble</p>
<p>As for wutang's comment on never dating a fat woman, it makes sense.</p>
<p>Even from a physical standpoint, it is unhealthy and only gives bad impressions of self image and so-on. At least I can kind of laugh though cause, this is america. </p>
<p>(or at least im in america). Fattest country in the world. About 1/3 of the population here just fats around all day, and it goes to show with all are weight related health problems.</p>
<p>On the other hand of being fat, i would not date a deathly skinny woman. Normal size is normally healthy and more attractive than dead skinny, or rolling fat. This whole subject on the whole though is kind incriminating and im tired of talking about what is gross and what is gross, so im done.
And if anyone hates me from this post, well im a guy, so im just spittin what i think.</p>
<p>Wutang, have you ever considered the reason you might not be getting girls is that you COMPLAIN ALL THE TIME? That is REALLY not attractive, no matter how you look physically. Whingers are annoying as hell. </p>
<p>Height is NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL. From my experience:
I have a few guy friends that are short. One is around the same height as me, (5'9") and he has a long-term girlfriend, who is taller than he is. They are rather adorable together, and most of our friends are sure they're going to get married and have adorable babies eventually. One of my other guy friends is about 5'8" and REALLY CUTE (he looks like Cary Elwes from the Princess Bride). I had a crush on him for a while, and the only reason I didn't consider dating him is that he dated my best friend for a couple months in spring 06 and they had a bad break-up. I'd never do that to her. Another of my guy friends is about my height as well, and I thought he was pretty cute when I first met him. Alas, he is NOT SINGLE EITHER. My one guy friend that is really tall (6'4") does indeed have a girlfriend despite being not incredibly attractive. HOWEVER, his girlfriend is not very attractive either. Also, this is only like his second girlfriend ever. Another of my guy friends that is pretty tall, about 6'2", is not really my type but not unattractive. He had NEVER HAD a girlfriend before last year, at age 20. (yes he is blond) My friend Virginia is about 5'2" and really pretty, while her boyfriend is okay-looking and I'm not sure how tall he is but it's shorter than me. </p>
<p>So maybe you should work on not whinging so much and maybe then you could hold down a girlfriend.</p>
<p>Well, if you're looking for a white girlfriend, your Asian-ness may be hurting you more than your height.</p>
<p>I'd also say I agree with BIGTWIX, and I think wutangfinancial does bring up some good points.</p>
<p>Why don't you all post links to your pics? Then we can all judge your attractiveness is as you claim it to be.</p>
<p>No, did it once. I don't want to post pics again. It's bad for a number of reasons, particularly considering all the outlandish posts I make.</p>
<p>For the record, when I post about non academic issues, I'm only about 20% serious, the rest is B.S. I hope some people got really, really mad.</p>
<p>BTW, my last GF was just about a half notch below a model, and taller than me in heels. Girl before that could have any guy of any height. So all the short guys who were ready to jump off a cliff, don't. Just get $$$ like me and cop bottles of grey goose at night clubs! Seriously, I'm an older student and worked full time for about 2 years, and invested and traded my savings. I live in Montreal and have almost no living expenses.</p>
<p>I am an angry short man though. That much is true.</p>
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I'm the pale one. This was a few months ago but I look the same. I don't have any really recent pics because my camera broke in November and I've been too broke to get a new one. I have some camera phone pics, but those are bad quality.</p>
<p>^ how is a girl's picture necessary? lol</p>
<p>AUlostchick
you're cute. But don't let it get to your head. But don't let dudes run game on you. All you CC kids are my children.</p>
<p>Honeslty, I want to congratulate myself. I'm very persuasive on the net. I should go into internet marketing or something.</p>
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<p>why is it unnecessary??</p>
<p>Because she's a showoff and must exert her superiority over all of us inferior-looking college-confidential geeks.</p>
<p>please. O god, don;t make me post a pic. I'm as good looking in male terms.</p>
<p>Also, to phuriku-I was average, maybe below average. Then I made myself really good looking. It's called clearing up acne, getting a tan, a haircut, working out and shaving.</p>