<p>"I guess if you're Indian, you can sort of pass yourself off as black. "</p>
<p>.... wth? I've never seen any Indian person that remotely looks black.</p>
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But what if you're Indian and look Arab? Not all Indians are dark.</p>
<p>Heck, If I had brown hair I could pass as a tanned white dude.
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<p>You are just supporting the main point that East Asians have it the worst, my man.</p>
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You are just supporting the main point that East Asians have it the worst, my man.
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<p>How so?......</p>
<p>I actually know one indian guy that has skin tone dark enough to pass as a guy. However, his other facials features prevent him from looking black. The reason why indians are excluded in "asians have it worse" debate is because indian girls are more inclined to date indian guys, so they aren't exactly out of luck. I mean, you never see a white guy with an indian girl. On the other hand, much like in the yellow fever video, east asian girls are being snatched up by all the white guys, which in turn decreases the available pool of girls for east asians.</p>
<p>Actually, of the couple of indian girls I know, one dates mostly black guys and one has dated a white guy before I think (they looked pretty well chummy at any rate, so I assume they were dating), so no, Indian girls do not always date Indian guys. It's more common, but East Asian girls, in my experience, date mostly East Asian guys. Well, if they're actually FROM there, at least. If a girl is Asian-American, she probably dates white guys.</p>
<p>Yeah, thats what I meant, when I say east asians, i mean east asian americans, just to differentiate them from indian americans; indians are asians too.</p>
<p>It all comes down to primal urges. That's my thoery, anyways. The only reason I can get girls at my height is that I look stereotypically Italian and have a decent build. Thus, I still give women shorter than me the sense I can "protect them." I'm also pretty mean, as evidenced on this forum, which helps A LOT. Basically, I have to be tough and I have to be smart. I got beat up daily when I was freshman in HS and still only 5'4. So I made friends with some of the older neighborhood tough guys by helping them out, lending them money, making them laugh etc. and they protected me. Then I wasn't as much of a beta male. Or, I was a beta with some alpha support. This made me feel more alpha.</p>
<p>A short Asian man does not offer any sense of protection. It does seem strange that this would matter in an elite college setting, but some how, those primal urges are still there.</p>
<p>For the record, my 5'4 miniature Chinese friend from high school, who never got any girls in our Beantown public school, is in John Hopkin's for med school. He has a beautiful white girlfriend who is about 4" taller than him. He just became a real catch. A 6'2 jock w/no plans making 10/hr carrying lumber is not as appealing to women as they get older.</p>
<p>Not all Asians are short you know. Most of the Asians I've come across are 5'8or over. The ones that are my friends are my height or over 6ft. </p>
<p>Dude, for every short guy there is a short girl. For ever fat guy there is a fat girl and for every ugly dude there's an ugly chick. I don't see what's the big deal.</p>
<p>There are way more pretty girls on my campus than hot guys. Trust me, I've looked. Everywhere I turn around, there's another pretty blond girl. Maybe once every couple days I'll see a guy where I'm like, "ooh, he's hot!" It's so unfair. You'd think in a school with a higher male percentage (51-49) it'd be easy to find one, but nooo. I want some eye-candy too!</p>
<p>Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. </p>
<p>You know I'd say I see more good looking guys out there than girls but you'd mistake me for being gay. </p>
<p>Besides I thought a guy's personality made him hot? Why are you being so superficial? :)</p>
<p>I'm speaking superficially. That's why I mentioned eye-candy. And well, there might be more good looking guys on YOUR campus. How unfortunate for you. I was just saying that I see more good looking girls on mine, which is unfortunate for me, because I am not bisexual or gay (or a dude). </p>
<p>When you get to know them, a guy's personality can make an okay-looking guy seem hotter, or it can make a "hot" guy seem really awful and gross. But if you're just looking to be looking, hotness is what you're looking for. That's generally what I'm doing if I'm just checking out random people, I'm not looking for, you know, a date. I'm just looking for pretties to ogle.</p>
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There are way more pretty girls on my campus than hot guys. Trust me, I've looked. Everywhere I turn around, there's another pretty blond girl. Maybe once every couple days I'll see a guy where I'm like, "ooh, he's hot!" It's so unfair. You'd think in a school with a higher male percentage (51-49) it'd be easy to find one, but nooo. I want some eye-candy too!
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<p>Maybe you should let a guy be the judge of whether the girl is pretty or not. Blond != good looking.</p>
<p>I didn't say blond automatically equals good looking. (I'm not blond, after all ;D) But like half of the girls on my campus are blond, and a majority of those girls are pretty. I think I can judge what is attractive in females thanks, I'm secure enough in my sexuality to know girls are pretty without wondering if I'm gay.</p>
<p>girls want a guy she can show off to her friends.</p>
<p>"Dude, for every short guy there is a short girl. For ever fat guy there is a fat girl and for every ugly dude there's an ugly chick. I don't see what's the big deal."</p>
<p>HAHA. I never really see fit guys with unfit girls, but i do see fit girls with unfit guys. Well unless the couple has been married for a while or somethin and the wife just gets fat.</p>
<p>As for fat people. I think the ration of fat male to female in japan is probably skewed, since out of the 3% of the japanese population that is clinically obese, a good handful probably do sumo. So if the rest of the world is equal fat girls to guys, then japan offsets the scale abit with sumo. I mean i guess they have sumo girls too, but still.</p>
<p>As for AUlostchick thinkin blondes are good looking...well
I DISAGREE. Opinion is opinion, but i find blonde to be very unnatractive 90% of the time. A real instant turnoff for me, with the exception of a few lucky people i see every so often.</p>
<p>I never said I thought blond was the only good looking trait a person could have. I've liked blond, brunette, and redhead guys. I just said that many of the pretty girls on my campus were blond, which is true, but that's because there's an overabundance of blonds here. There are pretty brunette girls and pretty redhead girls as well as ugly blond girls and ugly brunette and redhead girls. I just said that everytime I turn around, I feel like I bump into another pretty blond girl, because there are so many, compared to the hot guys on my campus.</p>
<p>Deluxehardballer here, telling it like it is:</p>
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<li> Women don't want short men.</li>
<li> Women don't like nice guys.</li>
<li> Women want a guy that looks cool in front of their friends. They want to show him off.</li>
<li> Women realize the communications/marketing degree they "earned" while having a perpetual hangover every day doesn't get them anywhere in life. After a few years, we find ourselves looking at rule #5...</li>
<li> After 25, women begin to look for a man to leech off of. Rather than go for the dumb ox/alcoholic fratboy that has the crappy job, they go for the engineer/doctor that never had sex. They entrap him and then half of his stuff is now hers. If she has a child, she is ensured even more of his stuff.</li>
<li> If you are a woman and you aren't fat, you will get hit on regardless of facial features.</li>
<li> College girls are evil.</li>
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<p>HAHA AUlostchick. Like i said, we all can have our own oppinions(thankfully).
For me it goes Black hair and dark brunettes are best. Light brown is alright. blonde is the exception. and then theres red.
But mostly, its always Black and Dark Brown, and thats about it 4 me.</p>
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5. After 25, women begin to look for a man to leech off of. Rather than go for the dumb ox/alcoholic fratboy that has the crappy job, they go for the engineer/doctor that never had sex. They entrap him and then half of his stuff is now hers. If she has a child, she is ensured even more of his stuff.
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so true. marriage is a legalized form of prostitution.</p>
<p>In response to post #157</p>
<p>TITCR.</p>