<p>whoa.</p>
<p>Lots of ugly judgments here with little basis on which to base them.</p>
<p>But maybe I’m a bit more sympathetic because in my household the breadwinner has been out of work for almost 10 months with no job in sight, and the not-breadwinner has been able to pick up more hours but still is far from turning a part-time position into a full-time one. I can easily see where a job might be worth pursuing for longer-term career opportunities, but still be one that means there won’t be any new cash left over to put toward college expenses - especially when accepting that job means maintaining a separate household for the person who has that new job.</p>