So, speaking of a family whose kid applied to expensive schools…
I’ll give our rationale, fully recognizing that every family’s choices are different. He wanted to try. He really wanted to try for what he felt were the most exciting, amazing schools, which also happened to be very expensive ones. (That’s not always the case, but with his list it was.)
We heard that colleges gave music scholarships, and we let him go for it with a few astronomically priced schools just in case they took into consideration our need. He knew it was a very long shot that we’d get enough aid to cover a $90,000/year school, but it was just possible. Some people on these threads have.
He did the work–the prescreening materials alone for USC took 10 hours–and he got into all the schools he applied to, but for one waitlist. Then, he was offered modest scholarships compared to the costs, and we had to say we couldn’t do any of them. He went for it, and it didn’t pan out.
At the same time, he had a few schools on his list that were affordable, although as @thumper1 says, there is no slam dunk on a music school. It’s such an unknown what their needs are. He got into those, too. So, this will all be a success, because he’ll be at a great school!
We could have done it differently. Could have told him to take some of the highest priced ones off his list, if we’d known how rare it was to get significant support. Maybe added one or two lower priced ones. I felt stupid lots of times. But hey, he can look back and say he got into the amazing schools he tried for.
You’ve all been so supportive and hoping for the best for my kid. Unfortunately, we got our offer from USC, and the scholarship and aid they’re offering bring the COA down to $75,000. I feel like it should be a mistake, based on our numbers. I’m going to do a few things to try to pinpoint what made it come out that way, and I will give them a call.