<p>FAFSA isn’t going to care that your parents are putting you and your sis thru private high school - that is a lifestyle choice. Some would argue that that money should have been saved for college, but that’s their choice. I’m not criticizing it; my own kids went to private high school. :)</p>
<p>What I hear your parents saying is that they’re (rightfully) concerned that their income (and likely assets) are going to prevent you from getting much from schools that would likely accept you. Your dad also has been rather vague about how much OVER $100k they earn. Unless your parents are quite frugal, people who put their kids thru private high schools that cost $15k per year are probably making a lot more than 100k. </p>
<p>Have your parents told you how much they can contribute each year to your education? If that number is less than what their EFC is, then there is a problem. There EFC could be as high as $30-50k per year, depending on their income and assets.</p>
<p>What are your stats…some have suggested schools (like WashU) that are reaches for most people. </p>
<p>Yes, if your stats are incredible and you “might” get accepted to one of those very few reach schools that give “some” free money to people with rather affluent incomes, then you might get some help…not likely more than $25k.</p>
<p>However, most other schools are different. Those with 6 figure incomes usually have high EFCs, therefore the “shortfall” is covered thru student loans. So, if your college COA is $50k per year, and your family’s EFC is $20k per year, the F/A will be mostly loan and possibly some uncovered costs if the school doesn’t meet need.</p>
<p>BTW…even if F/A gave you $10k per year, how will you pay the other $30-40k per year ? Can your parents pay that much? </p>
<p>BTW… You say that the colleges that you’re looking at cost about $40k…Is that including EVERYTHING. Most privates are costing $45-53k per year now and likely more next year. Be sure that everything is being added in…tuition, course fees, school fees, dorm, meal plan, books, misc costs, etc.</p>
<p>** If you’re considering loans…stop…Even if you “only” (ha ha) borrowed $25k per year, you’d end up borrowing $100k. The repayments would be around $1200.00 a month for 10 years. If you “only” (ha ha, again) borrowed $50k, your payments would be around $600 per month. Either way, your life between the ages of 22-32 would be horribly restrained by such a debt. While many of your peers would be moving on with their lives, buying homes, etc, you’d be unhappily saddled with that debt - knowing that there probably were some less expensive options. **</p>