<p>Potentially this weekend, I'll be going on my first real date (excluding high school dances and my best friend, who I'd never go out with seriously), a minor league baseball game on fireworks night. I've liked this girl(this makes me the guy of course. :p) on and off for about two years now, but I've had some of my strongest attractions to her, and some I'd consider love. Any advice on said first date? Don't know if this belongs here, but let's try at least.</p>
<p>firstly...awww
so...i guess dont come on too strong, she prbly already likes you seeing as she agreed to go out with you....as cliched as it is, just be yourself, because she will like you for who you are</p>
<p>where are you going to go on your date?</p>
<p>I mentioned this above, but plan A is minor league baseball on fireworks night.</p>
<p>Kiss her when the fireworks appear!</p>
<p>also, never listen to phil</p>
<p>Can you shut up, Brynna!</p>
<p>i doubt it</p>
<p>Has anyone ever "seen fireworks" when they kiss someone? I wish I could say that I have, but I am usually concerned with...uh other things.</p>
<p>Do what I said man! It will really make it romantic!</p>
<p>Do what feels right. But please don't tell her you love her. That might be kind of creepy.</p>
<p>Hahahahaha....</p>
<p>Definitely don't tell her you love her. It is creepy...are you guys really good friends? I think you should only kiss her if the moment is right, I personally would find it pretty weird to kiss on a first date, but I guess it also depends how well I know the guy. Pay attention to every little thing she says, I love it when a guy can recall the little things that I've told him, because it shows he actually cares. Remember to offer to pay or better yet take away her wallet if she still takes it out...a lot of my friends (including me) think it's really cute when a guy does that on the first date. Don't be too nervous, but it's kind of cute when the guy is a little nervous.
Aww...fireworks, so cute...good luck! :)</p>
<p>girls liked to be kissed. but i don't think you guys should make out or anything.</p>
<p>The little things count! Show her chivalry isn't dead. Walk on street side of the sidewalk, open doors, etc. Look into her eyes/at her face when talking, but don't stare cause that's kind of creepy. Complement her but don't go overboard. Say she looks beautiful tonight. (I remember my first date....I said my date looked beautiful and got tripped up and started stammering about how she looked beautiful everyday but ya...you get the point >.< )</p>
<p>Don't mess up....nah man jk...just do whatever because first dates are usually awkward and bad, but it's a learning experience so it can be good.</p>
<p>Also, make sure you (and your breath, even if you're not going to kiss her) don't smell.</p>
<p>Hold Hands!!!!!!!!!!!!!!</p>
<p>def. shower and all that...think of her before you, like holding the door and all...your gonna mess up, no one has ever had a perfect first date</p>
<p>oh and remember you dont love her yet...right now you only have feelings for her</p>
<p>Just relax...be yourself...and all the regular good stuff</p>
<p>lablondie and somebody1 should create their own thread...where they dis each other - what's with all the hatin'?</p>