<p>i think relationships are healthy as long as they do not become too extreme. Attachment can really suck and it usually takes a few years to get over. Not having dated at 20 is odd...especially since you have been in college for 2 years.</p>
<p>You could be a perfectly normal person and not have a date in your entire life. It takes some degree of aggressiveness to start a relationship, otherwise you'll just become friends for a few weeks and then rarely ever see each other again. Someone has to invite someone to something for anything to happen.</p>
<p>umm.. not to be mean or anything but dont listen to all those positive ppl telling how its normal or whatever.. its definitely not normal. But hey it will happen just be yourself and find someone with your common interests and whatever you do DONT try to change yourself or act "cool" it makes you come off amazingly lame</p>
<p>There are so many factors to consider that it is difficult to pin a "what is normal" label to a specific age number. Some people out there have absolutely zero interest in starting a relationship in their life during some part of their life. Some people are specifically looking off the bat for a long lasting relationship. Some people feel that they can't find any one with similar qualities and would not date just so they could go on a message board and proclaim that they are normal because they dated before a certain age.</p>
<p>Here is my advice:
Don't worry about what is "normal". The fact that you havent had a boyfriend does not make you weird or unnattractive at all. You have to let things happen. I am 17 and am currently in a fairly serious relationship. I didnt decide to be in the relationship because i was 17 and everyone else was doing it. I did it because i had a strong attraction to this person. Dont get a boyfriend because you think it will make you normal. and this is what i stress the most: dont base your happiness on other people. you have to be happy with yourself. And ya know, you might be lucky because you havnt had to deal with the stress that immatuure boys can cause. Because they can be a huge pain. good luck!- caitlyn</p>
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hey all these people should SSTTFFUU It is normal to not have boyfriend at your age. Most of the hoes that stupid a$$ highschool people see get AIDS and die early age.
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<p>Rofl.
That's pure genius.</p>
<p>lol yeah it is. It also really depends on the person. I don't really see myself dating for a long time, if ever. I'd be WAAY more depressed if I lived without ever going to Europe, or going hangliding, than if I lived without ever just going on a date, for example.</p>
<p>i think its normal not to. how much of your high school/early college career do you want to spend with one person?? you should be studying!! just kidding.... no, really, when you're that young its not important you should be learning about yourself (i tried to make that sound normal. and failed.) rather than having many long term relationships.....</p>
<p>god i hope that made sense....</p>