<p>So, I've been on dates before, but this is the first time I've asked someone to the movies with the intention of possibly dating in the future. So, what would you suggest I do tonight? I will be driving her to and from the movies, and possibly somewhere after depending if she is allowed. But, what should I do in the actual movie? Put my arm around her/possibly kiss at some point? She is a fairly shy girl, but I'm interested in future things with her, but this is our first time together. Thanks.</p>
<p>I wouldn’t kiss her, that sounds pretty aggressive lol. Then again, I lack A LOT of social skills, so IDK. If you do put your arm around her, make sure you are wearing deo to cover your BO</p>
<p>this is not the place for advice on such a matter</p>
<p>good advice, anyway</p>
<p>Okay, I’ve seen some pretty good advice given before! Anything else is appreciated.</p>
<p>whatever you do NEVER KEEP HER WAITING. come early to pick her up, open the door, pay for the ticket, buy some popcorn in case she wants any.</p>
<p>movies are really easy because u don’t have to talk. just at some point during the movie hold her hand and give her a meaningful look. after word stay and chat a bit then take her home and ask for a hug. if she wants anything else out of the night she’ll probably let you know</p>
<p>I think movies are so cliche. But I’m weird so don’t listen to me.</p>
<p>And I have had a few movie dates, except we didn’t just watch the movie. lololololol</p>
<p>Um, I would try to hold her hand. </p>
<p>*after word stay and chat a bit then take her home and ask for a hug. if she wants anything else out of the night she’ll probably let you know *</p>
<p>^Agreed.</p>
<p>Umm…is holding hands even really possible in a theatre with armrests? Is arms around shoulder a healthy substitute? Also what about light kissing? During movie or when I’m driving her home?</p>
<p>Holding hands is possible. Hopefully she’ll have her arm on the armrest adjacent, so what you do is give the little bump. Just gradually get into position for it, and when you are close enough, do it. If she rejects you, oh well she’s not interested. </p>
<p>Light kissing…as in a peck on the check? Unless she really comes out to you and asserts that she likes you in the dating way, that is a bit aggressive. She might think you are a total freak and only wants to get in her pants, however sentimentally you do it.</p>
<p>But I do want to get in her pants! Haha, just joking, kind of. And I did kind of mean like light kiss on lips at some point at the night. Obviously not much else since it’s first date!</p>
<p>On the first date, I wouldn’t kiss, especially not in a movie theater.</p>
<p>if y’all live in the middle of nowhere and the movie theater is almost empty,
go all out</p>
<p>HAHAHAHA @ responses on this thread… wow. lol.</p>
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Aren’t those the only kind of movie dates?!? … srsly though.</p>
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Ehhh… as long as you don’t, like, ambush her with a kiss when she’s TOTALLY not expecting it, that seems like it’d be completely fine. And I can hardly think of any circumstances in which a “peck on the cheek” would seem “aggressive” in the slightest… </p>
<p>You are getting some really reallyreallryalryelaryl typical CC responses here… I mean, most of these people have probably never kissed ANYONE (no offense? but really) so… not like they can give good advice.
I’m with Poseur on this one. lol.</p>
<p>Haha, I was considering the popcorn trick, but she didn’t want any food! Anyway, we only got as far as arms around shoulder, although I was looking for opportunities. Then after I asked her out and, she didn’t give any more opportunities for kiss! She left the car, but then we locked eyes for a good amount of time, but I couldn’t just be like “Get over here so we can make out!”. Whatever, more opportunities best be abound.</p>
<p>It’s good that she didn’t want any food. Food is just a distraction from what COULD be going on during the movie.</p>
<p>I think movie theater food is gross. And, also… what IV said. :)</p>
<p>I mean, most of these people have probably never kissed ANYONE (no offense? but really)</p>
<p>It’s nice being one of the not-so-innocent ones, isn’t it? =]</p>
<p>You walk her to the door, fool!</p>
<p>True, I forgot! Epic fail. We still ended up talking like a few hours afterward though, so things are going well!</p>
<p>Congrats, NeedsAdvices.</p>
<p>You are well on your way to getting laid! =D</p>
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Yes, but… sometimes I feel like I don’t belong on this site. Like I am corrupting little kids or something.</p>
<p>But I think we can give people hope that you can be nerdy, or weird, and still have friends/relationships! =D</p>
<p>Except you’re not that weird or nerdy.</p>