Years ago, I was working two jobs, had kids at home and one of the jobs I was on my feet. I was complaining to my sister in law about how I was tired and wasn’t doing any exercise.
She told me I just had to carve out the time and that if I got out there, after a while I would get “used” to the exercise and would find that I did have the time and energy to get a workout in.
So I went home and did what she suggested. And darn it all, it worked. I had so much more energy in my everyday life. It was like a switch turned on.
About exercise, I think it’s one of those lies we tell ourselves. I don’t like to exercise, I never want to do it. I never get that high they say.
That’s ok, but I think that we need to tell ourselves. Let me do something I may not be great at (Because we are never great at something at first, it takes time and practice) but I’m getting out there. I was terrible at sports, I was clumsy and unathletic My sister is the athletic one, she told me so!
I needed to get past all of that junk from my past. I needed to do stuff that I like instead of stuff I think I should do. I needed to get out of my head.
I am not good at XC skiing, I was really bad at first. But I had someone at a shop tell me that I could do it and if I hated it, he would buy my skis back. I liked it but I stunk. But I kept going, I was outside and I was getting better. Then I signed up for a lesson, oh my gosh, I got so much better. I took another lesson and was able to trade in my beginner skis for advanced beginner skis
The same thing with golf, you just don’t magically get better. It takes time and over the years I found a friend to go to lessons with. I bought new clubs and I got better. Not in days but years.
This is getting long. But fitness is a journey that takes time. One day, you might say to yourself, this isn’t bad.