<p>Im a little bit afraid to post after reading the snob thread. I have been reading this forum for a few weeks and admire the level of writing performed here. English is my second language; please do not take my mistakes and awkward choice of words as a sign of carelessness or disrespect, Im trying my best, but sometimes its not enough.</p>
<p>We are first generation immigrants family. Our kids will graduate HS 2014 and 2015. We have been in country for awhile, but this April is the first time we fill out tax forms based on two incomes (after we finally got permanent residency). After paying out some debts and fulfilling deferred needs, an issue of best allocation of extra money is on the table.
Our ultimate goals (very common, I guess) are saving for modest but comfortable retirement and provide kids with funds for good education.</p>
<p>I calculated our EFC and numbers are about 35K when one child is at college and a few of thousands higher for two. I know we can do it with some sacrifices (we used to live without this amount not long time ago), but we definitely do not want the number to grow.
Some data:
The income is about 150K;
The oldest parent will be 48 by the time first child go to college;
Mortgage on the house is under water and I do not expect much (if any) equity there in 5 years;
Under 70K in retirement plan;
We live in MA, small town, average school;
I do not expect my children to earn significant money while in high school (unless they develop some passion) so for now I assume there will be no funds on their names.</p>
<p>I have no prediction for college level at this point; they are capable for big league of needs-only-aid colleges, so I want to be prepared as much as I can, if they choose that path (they are constantly encouraged to do so). No big passion so far besides sports. Athletic abilities are possibly good enough to earn an admission tip, but I do not foresee any full-ride from D1 colleges. If I understand correctly, significant merit scholarship (over 15K) would be helpful for the first and last years, but not for three years in the middle, unless it would be two full-rides or close to that. Everything smaller will simply reduce finaid. Postgraduate education, including PhD, is likely to be a part of the picture, but I do not feel that we are responsible for that part, although we will help if we can. </p>
<p>My thoughts so far (not much):
- All money we can put aside should go to retirement funds. We will be better off not contributing toward retirement for 5 years while kids are in college, than doing half and half for the next five years.
- All major expenses (like buying new car or updating the house) should be planned for 2012 (oldest kid sophomore year) with expectation of total freeze for the next 6 years.
Any other advices?</p>
<p>We are also thinking about changing the school. The options are moving to better school district or good private catholic (we are not catholics and not religious at all for that matter, but as far as I know its not a requirement). Any of those options will cost us significant amount of money so I guess from financial point of view it does not have any advantage. Or does it? If we move to different town our current house will become a rental (still under water) on which we will lose money. How will it effect on our EFC?</p>
<p>It turned out long. Thanks reading my post to the end.</p>