Flirting S.o.s.

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<p>This is by far the most embarrassing thread I've ever posted, but. I need help. lol. I have no idea how to flirt. I see a lot of boys look at me, and if I think they are cute I want to flirt back... but I just don't know how. I usually come off as arrogant because I just look at them and then look away, because I am shy lol. Oh boy.
Girls - Any advice? How do you flirt?
Guys - Feel free to post... what do you like in a girl?</p>

<p>Thanks everyone.</p>

<p>Sincerely,
INeedHelpInTheFlirtingDepartment</p>

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<p>There are a LOT of threads like this. Browse the "New Posts" section by clicking the button above or use the search tool.</p>

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<p>Try a seductive smile?
Play along with it. Get to know him. Talk about your common interests. Do nice things for him.</p>

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<p>guy here.
if a guy smiles at u, smile back and make it a nice one, not a smile that says: **** off! keep doing that till he comes and talks to u.</p>

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<p>Let me put it to you blunt, like a guy, guys can be oblivious. In order to get noticed you must do something outlandish and or obvious, beyond your normal shy character. </p>

<p>Compliments are a good way to start, but many times they alone don't seal the deal. You can wink at them too. If you really feel crazy, grab his butt that will get his attention, and thinking just how you want him too. </p>

<p>Remember guys, every six seconds.</p>

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If you really feel crazy, grab his butt that will get his attention, and thinking just how you want him too.

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<p>No one's ever done that with me!!!:(:)</p>

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<p>
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If you really feel crazy, grab his butt that will get his attention, and thinking just how you want him too.

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<p>I could NEVER do that! (Unless he did it to me first) and then I still probably wouldn't! It sucks being shy!</p>

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<p>Easiest way: Just come up to us and say hi. </p>

<p>Easy. </p>

<p>You in Boston?</p>

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<p>
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If you really feel crazy, grab his butt that will get his attention, and thinking just how you want him too.

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Woowww mike, what a tip. I dunno about how a guy would react (I'd think it depends on the guy), but if someone did that to me, it's goodbye for sure.
I'd probably develop an intense fear of the person afterwards. :)</p>

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<p>fear over a butt grabbing??why???</p>

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<p>Sounds perverted to me. :) I mean, would you like it if some random person walked up to you and grabbed you in an uncomfortable area? It's totally intrusive and all too fast for a relationship.
I would think that whoever did that on first sight to me does it to other people, as well. That ruins it.</p>

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<p>You go up to them and say:
"How you doin'?"</p>

<p>:D</p>

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<p>Ok Ok, if you're shy, would you do things on dares? Bring a friend and dare eachother to do outlandish things to cute guys.</p>

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<p>I wouldn't do that if i were you. The last time I played that game (when I was 7) my friends had mr licking a toilet bowl.!!!!!</p>

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<p>Well, this would be assuming that they're out together trying to get boys...last I heard, licking toilet bowls don't get anyone any boys.</p>

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<p>my point was that she'll end up doing somethind humiliating and won't get a guy.</p>

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<p>Congrats on your 1000th post. :)</p>

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<p>it probably wont last</p>

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<p>hahha thanks for the advice guys & girls... I'll try to be more daring/oustandish... probably won't be grabbing any butts (haha) but I will definately see what I can do. Thanks :)</p>

<p>p.s. yes to Boston</p>

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<p>p.s. keep the replies coming... I love the input. And I most definately need it. lol</p>