<p>This doesn’t sound like a tough decision at all. Where do you want to go to school? If your dad has to verbally abuse you to pick UVA, doesn’t that show that you don’t really want to go?</p>
<p>I’m going to be graduating with about 20-30k worth of debt. I’m not too worried about it, especially because I got an internship this summer that will hopefully turn into a job and career once I graduate. As long as I’m working then the debt is no biggie.</p>
<p>Obviously UVA will have the advantage with companies and whatnot close to the area: people tend to like and prefer what they are familiar with.</p>
<p>Here’s a point-by-point rebuttal of your dad’s coworker’s points.</p>
<p>1: “the California government is spiraling downward with no guarantee of its future”</p>
<p>The California government has little to nothing to do with USC. USC is not funded by the California state government. And it’s not like going to USC forces you to stay in California for the rest of your life.</p>
<p>2: 'due to the budget problems and outsourcing, Silicon Valley jobs would be more difficult to attain for in-country graduates; in contrast, the Washington, D.C. “corridor” is not plagued by this problem"</p>
<p>This argument is meaningless without numbers to back it up. Even assuming it’s true though, how many successful silicon valley companies can you name? Now, how many DC corridor companies can you name? Finally, two magic words for you: defense contractors. These jobs will never be outsourced, and Southern California just happens to be a hotbed of defense work.</p>
<p>3: " because I grew up in Northern Virginia, going to UVA would provide me with immediate access to a network of family and high school friends, a network that would not exist in California."</p>
<p>You already have this network of high school and family friends. Honestly though, high school friends aren’t gonna do much for you. And if your family ditches you because you went across the country to go to school, you’ve got bigger problems. College is the real time to form meaningful connections, make friends, and create your own personal network. And this is one thing USC excels at. First of all, the Trojan Family prides itself on making and maintaining connections between USC alumni, no matter where you go or what you do. Obviously it’ll be stronger the closer you are to California, but I’m here in London this semester studying abroad and I’ve done events with the alumni club here, with pretty good turnouts.</p>
<p>4: “when I could go to UVA without accumulating any debt, accruing $20k-30k of debt by going to USC would be a poor choice that would disadvantage me following graduation.”</p>
<p>Of course debt is going to disadvantage you. That doesn’t mean it’s a avoid-at-all-costs sort of things though. You are investing in your future, and the question you have to answer is “is a USC education worth the extra money I will spend to get it?” Again, i’m not too worried about my debt. As long as I’ve got a job, then it will be no problem.</p>
<p>5: “he asked the CEO if he would rather hire a UVA graduate or a USC graduate, provided all other credentials were identical; the CEO, after additional explication of the situation, replied “UVA.””</p>
<p>Again, people will prefer what they are familiar with. Did you ask for specifics? Assuming all other things were equal, he is simply going off the perceived prestige and name recognition. Well two (or many more) can play at that game. Go ask bigshot CEOs in California which one they’d hire. Then ask more people from around the country and around the world. Name recognition and perceived prestige is notoriously slow to change. USC as a university has changed significantly over the past 20 years, but we’ve still got the old stereotype in the public’s eye. Nothing to be done about it though, we just keep improving ourselves and showing people the great things we accomplish.</p>
<p>Regarding debt and grad school: USC has a program called the Progressive Degree Program where you continue on to grad school at USC and earn a master’s degree in just one year, making it 5 years total to get a Master’s degree. I’m taking advantage of this program for the cost and time savings, plus I love the school and don’t see myself needing to go to grad school anywhere else. Of course you may have different thoughts, but a USC undergrad education will be rigorous and respected enough to get you into whatever higher academic institution you want. I know a guy who was wooed by MIT to get a doctorate there, but he turned them down and instead went to Cambridge (UK) to do it.</p>
<p>Of course, there are also people who go out and work for a few years before doing a master’s. Most of the time they only take one or two classes a semester, and their workplace covers the cost of tuition. This is a good option too, but what’s even better is if you can get an internship, and convince them to pay for you to finish out your schooling straight through, then go work for them. That’s my plan.</p>
<p>Finally, just a reminder: this is your choice. Don’t let your parents or anyone else bully you into a decision that you will have to take the consequences of.</p>