<p>Friends just happen. You just stand around, and become friends. Taking action = romantic desire. I don't think anyone can argue with this.</p>
<p>^ I agree,</p>
<p>we tend to think that the girl starting a conversation has interest on us because moest of them sound all giddy when they talk. Now, if the girl is ugly, there is no problem--they will have all the male friendship they want. Personally, if an attractive girl talks to me, I act as though they are not any different from any guy or homeless person on the street. I use such indefference because I know better than to expect something from a random hot girl on the street or where have you. Now, if you want to create a warm, friendly atmosphere, I would recommend petting the guy on the leg while you talk to him and talking about neutral things.</p>
<p>TheOneCurlyFry, guys say that only because you're so short. No offense.</p>
<p>If you want to approach a guy just talk sports. 95% of guys will carry on a conversation. I met a ton of my college buddies through casual football conversations.</p>
<p>^^^^^lol yeah..i agree^^^^^</p>
<p>Deluxe What's wrong with a girl being short?</p>
<p>CurlyFry I get that comment too -- that I think like a guy. Whatever the **** that means.</p>
<p>Nehh, nehh, I do not care about TV sports at all. I don't know what to do to get guy friends, but fortunately, I don't care. Plus, why would I try to make friends with a guy based on something I don't even like. I am meeting this guy because we both like talking about rappers and MCs. Anyway, I was hoping for an interesting thread.</p>
<p>i agree with negru and TheOneCurlyFry</p>
<p>"are girls ever the people who take the initiative in turning a friendship into a relationship?" -InquilineKea
Yeah, cmon, where are those girls</p>
<p>Im friends with many girls and they say stuff like, "you are a guy? since when?" lol</p>
<p>I am short. I am not</a> ugly. Am I? </p>
<p>I am not fat either, just so you know.</p>
<p>^ehhhhhhh tsk tsk</p>
<p>what is that supposed to mean? :<</p>
<p>interesting topic.</p>
<p>it still depends though. there are girls who dont look that attractive to me, and i can usually be ok friends with them. for the hot ones, it's hard.</p>
<p>Theonecurlyfry,</p>
<p>i thought you were a guy? if that's you in that pic then no you're not ugly (this coming from a fellow indian) :)</p>
<p>uh, what does shortness have to do with anything, on average females are shorter than males. It does really affect anything until the girl is really tall ~6' 2" or really short ~4' 6"</p>
<p>No you are not ugly, but I think a lot of guys wrongfully assume for some reason that Indian women are asexual. Tips: wear 3" heels and learn to strut in them. Make eyes with men. Wear a little make up, but not too much. I have a male Indian friend who is a huuuge player, and basically he just learned how to groom/dress/ and talk in a way that conforms with western ideals of sexual attractiveness.</p>
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<p>That's the stupidest thing I've read on CC.</p>
<p>um, no, it's the truth. I'm admitting that alot of white guys and girls are stupid in this regard. Not all, but a lot. And LOTS of Indian guys complain both on this site and in real life that women do not take them as sexual beings. One of the last girls I hooked up with was balzin pakistani chick. When I said I hooked up with a pakistani girl, lots of my friends in the U.S. conjured up negative stereotypes about what a pakistani looks like simply due to ignorance.</p>
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<p>I'm not complaining. And what other Indian guys on this site? Can you post the link as proof?</p>
<p>ok here's my list </p>
<p>1) College is the breeding grounds for hook ups or relationships
2) If you're an attractive girl and you talk to a guy of course he's going to be want to be more than just friends
3) KEEP THIS IN MIND there are guys that are MEANT to be your friends and there are guys that are MEANT to be your boyfriend.
4) You can't be everyone's boyfriend/girlfriend</p>
<p>Yeah I agree if you are a girl who seriously wants to be thought of as a friend, you're best bet is to just talk sports or cars. Although if you are hot enough, we'll want you anyway</p>