<p>Thank you for missing the point. Should we get back on topic?</p>
<p>We answered the question, I think. Friends just happen :).</p>
<p>I am not an American female, yay.</p>
<p>Get back on topic --- What else is there to discuss? :/</p>
<p>Anything besides the fact that my pretentious, ornate writing style is apparently distracting frasifrasi from what I'm saying (that reducing a woman to her bra size is demeaning) enough that he's compelled to poke fun at me for it, I guess.</p>
<p>And yes, that was an incredibly tortured sentence, even by my standards. :p</p>
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Btw, how is dieting supposed to increase the size of your breasts???
I was going to spare you the details of the ridiculousness I put myself through freshman and sophomore year, but here it is:</p>
<p>At 5'6 and just over 100 pounds (naturally!), I was a bony little thing without a curve on her body. I'd been informed more times than I cared to count that a girl needed breasts to be considered attractive, so to remedy my situation I decided that I needed to gain weight, assuming that the "curves" would follow. I gained over 20 pounds in less-than-healthy ways (yes, overeating is a form of disordered eating) and my 32A expanded to... a 34A (woo!). Realizing that my plan had failed, I panicked and resorted to various permutations of starving, compulsive exercising, and related things, because the only thing worse than being flat-chested was being flat-chested and fat, and the only semi-legitimate excuse for not having big boobs was to be skinny as hell.</p>
<p>In the past two years I've stabilized at a healthy (for me) 110 pounds and resigned myself to a lifetime of push-up bras and feelings of inferiority. You're welcome to point and laugh; I probably would, too. :rolleyes:</p>
<p>did we really need to know that</p>
<p>I wasn't going to, but he insisted. I'm not comfortable talking about it either, but whatever.</p>
<p>*** 100? that's messed up...but then again im a 5 9 male that weighs 130...i need to gain some weight...IN MUSCLE BABY!</p>
<p>I'm 110 now; I was fourteen when I weighed 100... but yes, I'm pretty much a stick figure.</p>
<p>Wow, my sympathies, camelia :/.</p>