<p>So, my friend and I were chatting, and this question came up. I asked him to start a thread here but he wouldn’t, so I have to do it. I guess this will make a fool out of me.</p>
<p>Several instances when I’m questioning whether girl has crush on me…</p>
<li><p>Class waltzed in APEH, and girls choose guys to waltz with. Girl rushes up to me. After somewhat awkward experience, no more talking for a month until she asks me for paper. (My response: not much.)</p></li>
<li><p>Bunch of frosh girls say hi to me every time they meet me. (My response: I’m in the same class as them 4th period, so I help set up their chairs.)</p></li>
<li><p>Tutored girl for Chem stuff. She smiles at me when she walks by now. (My response: smile back and say hi, help her when she asks.)</p></li>
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<p>^...what is with all of these threads?
since when did smiling at a guy mean you liked him? are we not allowed to smile at guys without liking them now?</p>
<p>no one on here can give you the real answer. every girl is different.</p>
<p>Girls' logic is similar to a logic of (human) children and is completely uninterpretable by any known intelligent species. I suggest a coin toss ;-)</p>
<p>lol just because a girl says hi to you and smiles does not mean that she likes you. I'm a girl, so i know that girls just do stuff like that. unless she really goes out of her way to talk to you then she may like you.</p>
<p>to be honest when i like a guy i start to touch them a lot when i'm talking, hahaha.</p>
<p>I smile and say hi to guys because it's POLITE and just a nice thing to do. It doesn't mean that I have a crush on a guy just because I smile and say hi.</p>
<p>as for the girl rushing to waltz with you, something like that happened to me just the other day. we had to pick lab partners and "weird</a> crocheting girl" was looking my way. so i quickly turned to the guy behind me and said "want to be partners"? i dont have a crush on him, but i like him better than the crocheting girl. maybe something similar happened to you.</p>
<p>um yeah i smile and say hi to a lot of guys
most of which I would never date. ever. hahahha. </p>
<p>one of the guys I'm crushing on...we just talk and flirt a lot.
the other one I don't really know well, he's just hot, plays soccer, and sits next to me in a few of my classes, (our last names are K-->L) hahaha. </p>
<p>but yeah. smiling and saying hi is just something you DO.</p>
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p-izzle, the only thing the op said about "#3" was that she was in his chem class and occasionally smiles him.
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No, I tutored her once earlier this year in Chem. During that hour, I don't think I said anything funny but I guess she found stuff that I said funny. Ever since then, she's says hi and smiles at me, and even asked me to help her again.</p>
<p>It's just weird, I don't know. Maybe because I don't see males saying hi to girls who aren't their friends.</p>
<p>It's been a topic that has perplexed me for quite some time. I know girls were naturally social, but I had always thought that was towards other fellow females. There are other girls I know from middle school who talk to me, and acquaintances, but these examples are girls who I <em>barely</em> know who go out of their way, it seems, to talk to me.</p>
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Your lucky you have girls chasing you. Me on the other hand, nah, since all the girls I like are white and a brown + white = (/)
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<p>I wish the girl I liked would chase after me. (see the How to say Hi to a girl thread)</p>
<p>Maybe, for girls, the less they show, the more they like like you? Hmmm...</p>
<p>But seriously, I'm not really girl material. If you knew me you would know.</p>
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me too chocolatelover.</p>
<p>as for the girl rushing to waltz with you, something like that happened to me just the other day. we had to pick lab partners and "weird crocheting girl" was looking my way. so i quickly turned to the guy behind me and said "want to be partners"? i dont have a crush on him, but i like him better than the crocheting girl. maybe something similar happened to you.
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<p>lol at the crocheting girl. The girl who ran up to me actually called my name, so I don't think it was some random person she just picked to get away from somebody else.</p>
<p>Hamchuck,
If there's one thing I hate about this forum (is there?), it's the "you're a loser" mentality. I'm not trying to get with them. I'm just curious how one could sense it.</p>
<p>The kid that I tutor always waves to me in the hall.</p>
<p>To be honest, it's extremely difficult to tell when anyone (whether you're a girl or a guy) likes you. That's why most crushes never develop into anything.</p>
<p>Girl One might like you... the other girls are just polite and friendly, though (in my opinion. I don't know them, and I could be wrong).</p>
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If there's one thing I hate about this forum (is there?), it's the "you're a loser" mentality. I'm not trying to get with them. I'm just curious how one could sense it.
<p>haha, anyways. With regard to your "problem", I honestly don't think any of them might like you (although #1 may be leaning toward liking you). As LesOs mentioned, girls are humans too and carry the same politeness and etiquette (even more so) than males do, which of course, can be misinterpreted.</p>
<p>...If you want to know if a girl likes you, maybe you should talk to her and ask her out. If she says no, she doesn't like you.</p>
<p>Most guys don't have the guts to do that, they just skirt around the question until the girl has clearly implied that she will say yes, then the guy asks her out.</p>
<p>I can usually tell when girls like me. Always staring at me. Unless I like her back, I really don't like it >_></p>
<p>This psycho freshman/sophmore girl is stalking me too I swear to god. Every day at lunch when me and my friend are standing in line to get food, she and her friends always come up behind us and she keeps saying the weirdest things to me. like "If you were a male hooker, i'd pay big bucks for you". I usually just ignore her now.</p>
<p>But that's the least of my problems. I swear to god my Spanish teacher......it makes me sick to even say it but I think she....like....is attracted to me.</p>
<p>She is ALWAYS complementing me. I got a haircut a few weeks ago and for like 2 days straight she kept saying how cool it was (it looked normal) and kept embarrassing me in front of the class. And she's always like standing near my desk reading my assignments for no reason, even if they aren't Spanish. And when I forget to do my homework she makes a huge deal out of it. </p>
<p>And omg my Econ teacher said something today that make just say "***". I don't know if I want to say it though, someone from my class might be on these boards. haha</p>
<p>dude NEVER assume that a girl likes you just because she smiles at you. NEVER. EVEN when she doesnt usually smile at anyone but you, you still can't conclude that. Girls are VERY complicated. You'll never know.</p>
<p>first off, i'd like to say that i'm so very sorry for Little_Duck b/c of his very awkward situations (take a moment of silence)</p>
<p>next, i find it quite amusing how there's such a big rift w/ interactions between girls&guys. i mean i treat girls the same way i treat guys, and it's funny how some ppl make a big deal if a girl makes a small gesture towards them or something</p>
<p>as for how a guy can tell, it's just something u can feel (i know that's vague)
like the weird part for me is that some of my ex's and some girls right now like me, even if they have a freakin BF
it's kinda weird b/c i may/may not like them, but like when they hug/kiss their BF or even sit w/ them, they always keep staring at me (scary) and seeing if i saw them do stuff</p>
<p>in conclusion, i don't really know the purpose of whatever i just said, i guess i only wrote this b/c i just got home from a party and i'm so tired</p>