For the '10s: What did you send to college with your child that was never used?

<p>Just returned last week from picking up my son from his freshman year and here are some of my observations:</p>

<p>Sheets and Towels: Sent son with 2 sets of sheets (one white and one darker) and 3 bath towels and 3 facecloths. Said he thought he only needed one set since he would wash and put back on bed when dried (noticed darker set was on bed). But honestly, both sets were used and I hate him not having a spare set just in case… Said he only used 2 towels although I made him store the 3rd. Facecloths never used more so because he didn’t know where to store the wet one (he uses face cloths all the time at home)</p>

<p>Clothing: Son grew some while at school and several shirts and tshirts and shorts that he had were small. Space was limited so he had been storing these under his bed in his suitcase. His University had a donation bin for unwanted clothing so alot of it went in there. So be prepared for your kids (especially boys) to have a possible growth spurt. My son is 19 and grew about an inch and gained about 10 lbs. So make sure all the clothing has room to spare or it could go to the donation bin.</p>

<p>Desk supplies: He went down with the typical supplies including stamps and envelopes (which had been used from what I could tell). All of the supplies were used. His room mate brought a printer that was kept in a box and my son told me that he wanted his own next year. Not sure if he used the room mates or not but said he hated not having his own printer. We will keep an eye out for a nice printer this summer. </p>

<p>I had bought 3 smaller black canvas bins that my son kept on his bookcase. He mentioned that he could have used more of those to store odds and ends and smaller books. I think I purchased them at Bed, Bath and Beyond or maybe the Container store.<br>
I also bought a set of bookends that he said he was glad he had so his books didn’t fall all over the place.</p>

<p>Other: First Aid/Medicine Kit: this was really just a large tolietry bag but when I opened it nearly everything in it had been used. Advil, bandaids, athletic tape, floss, eye drops, cold medicine (a box of EmergenC was completely empty). I had him store this and will replenish in the fall.
Shower Caddy: used and stored with tolietries.
Tool Kit: Picked up a tool kit at wal mart and added some stuff such as Command strips (which we used on move in day) small scissors, duct tape (used half the roll ,on what, no idea, but handy for taping up storage boxes last week) small ball pump for basketballs, footballs (said he used often). Mentioned that alot of people knew he had the kit and borrowed it often and he liked having it for emergencies. The screw driver came in handy for cleaning out the gross refridgerator! Claimed he didn’t use the fridge that much but from the looks of it I am not so sure as it was terrible! He had to use a screwdriver to scrape the crap that had spilled on the bottom shelf and hardened. Cleaning supplies would have been nice but all he had was lysol wipes and paper towel (from bathroom) and water. But it got the job done.<br>
Portable 3 drawer bin: bought from BBB and it was packed with clothing (socks, underwear, underarmor type clothing). Would recommend if drawer space is tight. Stored for next year. </p>

<p>One thing I will comment on however was the condition of the room. I have never seen so much dust in my life! Everything was covered in it. My son seemed to have a chronic cold all year and now I think I know why, possibly from dust allergies. I don’t think that this room had been vacuumed or swept since August! Now one of the reasons for this might have been because he was in the last room in the hall by an exit door where people would come and go and if the door to their room was left open alot of the general dust would naturally flow in, but honestly… I told him next year that I was giving him a swiffer and he better use it! I think even he was grossed out by all of it and the night before he moved out he said he spent alot of time wiping everything down and vacuuming. It looked pretty good when I went back to help him move out. </p>

<p>Things he took for his room: I know that parents reading this post are making notes on what to bring and not to bring in the fall. My son brought a few things to hang on his wall (university banner, red sox pennant) and he wanted those stored for use next year. He also had some pictures in frames (friends etc) and he wanted those stored also. Mentioned he didn’t need a lamp because the campus desk set up came with lighting but I made him store anyway and will take it home if he doesn’t need it. Had a small clip on fan he used all the time but I threw out as it was so caked with dust. Will get another for the fall. Loved his Ihome, PS3 and tv. Said he didn’t play games much and brought it home but will bring PS3 back in the fall. TV was obviously used a fair amount and it was also put in storage for next year. But, the one thing he said he loved was this bungee desk chair that we bought at home at the container store and lugged down to NC. When he moved in, alot of people asked me where the chair came from and the kids all seem to like sitting in it. My son found the university provided chair uncomfortable and liked that this chair bounced and swiveled on castors. So this was put in storage also.<br>
Also had used a pop up laundry basket for things like footballs, basketballs, frisbees, wiffle balls etc. Wow, only thing left was wiffle balls and football. Everything else was missing or lost. He said that he and his friends used the equipment alot (obviously)
One thing I would do for next year is buy alot of laundry detergent. Son kept forgetting it whenever he went to Target etc and said it was $$$ on campus. He often found himself borrowing detergent toward the end of the semester so I would buy like 5 containers in the fall and have him just store them on the floor in his closet next time if there is room. </p>

<p>His room mate had left behind a rug and a few posters. The rug was gross (no vacuum remember) so this was put out in the donation pile and I have no idea what happened to the other things left behind. I think it was some towels and clothing. So note to kids: make sure everything is taken from the room upon check out. </p>

<p>The only thing that he actually brought home that he said he never used was a laptop computer cover and laptop lock. Hmmm…he tends to have a false sense of security but insisted he didn’t and probably wouldn’t use them (until someone actually steals the laptop…)</p>

<p>CC was a great source of info when we were purchasing things for move in, so I hope this helps out some.</p>

<p>Missypie - we have been wondering that too actually, since we are a big “outdoorsy” family we all have worn North Face gear, long before it became somewhat of a “in” thing. My D jests sometimes that most of the girls she sees in North Face would never be caught dead hiking or camping in the wilderness lol…</p>

<p>That includes my D. She loves her North Face and is very non-outdoorsy.</p>

<p>Just finished doing S2s laundry. Somehow, he ended up with 2 extra pillows (4 total) that he bought. I didn’t see the pastel sheet I sent with him, but the mattress cover and a black sheet / pillowcase came back, along with TWO extra comforters along with his. One of them is a queen size comforter. I guess a friend didn’t have room for it. </p>

<p>The refrigerator was well used. S hates waiting in line for mediocre food, so he would buy fresh stuff for himself. In addition to milk & cookies. In fact, if there was a line in the cafeteria, he would grab a couple of whole tomatoes from the display and eat them like apples rather than wait in line. Fortunately, he could leave the fridge in storage for the summer. </p>

<p>Agree about the enormous quantities of dust. Will try a swiffer next year.</p>

<p>May I switch this around for a second to “What did your child bring home that you did not send?”.</p>

<p>I just helped D1 unpack the car, I’m pretty sure we did not send her with a motorcyle helmet.</p>

<p>OK, now I feel better.</p>

<p>Would love to hear the story behind THAT helmet!!!</p>

<p>A deck of cards and Act restoring anti-cavitiy fluoride mouthwash. Both came home unopened. “Nobody else used mouthwash and I didn’t want to be the only one. And nobody plays cards at xyz.” Those items won’t be returning with him to school in the fall.</p>

<p>My son insisted he did not need a second set of sheets until his dad related his own experience. Seems that my husband’s college roommate had been drinking and puked on my hubby’s bed. DH was glad he could toss the gross sheets and replace with a fresh set immediately.</p>

<p>My son is now a sophomore and still hasn’t used the second set of sheets. They are still in plastic. I have actually witnessed him doing laundry at school, though. He also never used the collapsible drying rack I got him for the sweaters he purchased for his new college wardrobe just before freshman year started. Apparently having me wash them between terms is sufficient. <g> I repossessed the drying rack and now <em>I</em> use it, which is great.</g></p>

<p>Love this thread.</p>

<p>While other high achievers at my son’s new school are taking courses at community colleges, my son will be getting an education at home.</p>

<p>How to do laundry, how to pick your clothes off the floor, how to clear your plate off the table, how to make your breakfast, how to drive.</p>

<p>Who needs to take chemistry when there are so much more important things to learn!</p>

<p>I am appreciating my son’s minimalist side in anticipation of his going away to college.</p>

<p>My husband is insisting on buying a printer, though, as he doesn’t want son walking across campus in the wee hours of the morning to print assignments.</p>

<p>Husband also insists on buying those small boxes of laundry detergent to send with son, despite the fact that they probably cost as much as a full bottle. He has the distorted view that that will perhaps encourage son to do his own laundry. Hey, we don’t call him Mr. Inertia for nothing.</p>

<p>Montegut - D took single load packets with her and loved them (we got them free from the pediatrician’s office though). When she had to switch to small triple concentrate bottles she complained that it was harder to carry as she didn’t want to put a possible drippy bottle in with her clear stuff and random laundry people were always wanting to use her detergent (guess when they heard laundry was free at the school, they thought it meant soap too!).</p>

<p>When d1 went off to school in 2001, her only requests for her October birthday were cooking-related - mixing bowls, pots and pans, utensils, etc. She was in a dorm with a decent kitchen, has always enjoyed cooking/baking, and did a lot of both as an undergrad. So when d2 went off to school in 2005, we outfitted her with a nice assortment of kitchen stuff. Later learned that she was in the only dorm complex on campus with no kitchen facilities at all. :rolleyes: So her stuff came home unopened and sat until she needed it for a summer internship a couple of years later. When will I learn that, with my kids especially, one size does not fit all?</p>

<p>My kids really enjoyed the two cases of canned soups that I sent up with each of them. They replenished the supply everytime they came home.</p>

<p>When you pack up the over the counter medicines, vitamins, thermometer etc… put it all in one container marked medicines and vitamins. Some kids just don’t even bother to look inside that box until they are packing to come home.</p>

<p>This may be true for other male students, but laundry detergent and a second set of sheets. He is 1.5 hours away and came home with a duffel bag of laundry. Unclear if he knows with where the laundry machines at the school are. Probably some notebooks. He doesn’t really use them but we buy them every year as part of the ritual of getting ready for school.</p>

<p>His roommate moved out at the end of the first semester and I bought him a printer. It was used. I also bought him a cordless electric kettle and Lipton’s Cup of Soup. Really appreciated because the cafeteria closes at 7 and doesn’t allow time for that second dinner. Bought him a basketball for his birthday and that was used for pickup games at the gym.</p>

<p>Hmm… Bicycle helmet and cable lock for laptop.</p>

<p>I don’t recall seeing this mentioned, but one thing my son DID use was a lapdesk for his laptop computer. What he DIDN’T use was the magnetic mark&wipe board.</p>

<p>I won a photo frame wipe board at an out of town conference and carefully transported that thing for two plane changes as my first official dorm gift. </p>

<p>Do you mean to tell me my son won’t use it?</p>

<p>My two still in college like to use the Purex sheets for laundry - sheet goes from washer to dryer (detergent and dryer sheet in one) - no liquid, no measuring - and no unwieldy container. My daughter would throw several sheets in the hamper along with her dirty clothes and not have to lug much to the laundry room. My son found he could hide the container with the Purex sheets under his bed and just pull one or two sheets as needed. It solved the problem of missing laundry detergent that had been occurring. :)</p>

<p>I think most kids use the marker boards.</p>

<p>What do they use the marker board for? I never sent one with S1. Don’t they just text each other to leave messages, etc.?</p>