<p>cobrat, I grew up with 2 brothers, and most of my friends are male due to the line of work I have been in - finance and technology. I have found just as many men who care about their living environment as women. Most men maybe more “streamlined” when it comes to decorating, but I wouldn’t necessary say they are slobs.</p>
<p>It appears you grew up in China, which is ver different than the US, not better or worse, but just different. You continue to come on the parents forum to share your personal experience, but I am not sure how relevant it is to the general discussion here. I am struggling with what’s your added value here. You are well over college age, not married, do not have children, what experience are you sharing?</p>