<p>Cobrat - this is what you posted:
It sounded like you grew up in China then went to high school in NYC, which is not unreasonable to assume, especially with your constant reference to your aunts, uncles, cousins, the whole extended family constantly giving their opinion about everything in your life. It is hard for me to believe that anyone who grew up in the US would care that much about what their relatives are saying. If I made the wrong assumption, my apology.</p>