<p>"On average, males are allowed by their parents and society to get away with much more slobbiness than their female siblings/counterparts. "</p>
<p>Society?? Cobrat, society at large does not CARE about any individual person’s messiness or sloppiness. </p>
<p>There is no cobrat except in what is reflected in other people’s eyes, it seems. I have never seen a person whose entire conversation is so dominated by what some groups of people think of other groups of people, and the assumption that what other people think is automatically Importnt or meaningful.</p>