<p>If you’re looking for sympathy you’ve come to the wrong place… </p>
<p>Sure, some kids are getting easy A’s with teachers than demand little. Some kids grow up with parents that are native French speakers and have learned the language at home. We can write pages about how some kids have an advantage.</p>
<p>Ok, the world isn’t fair. But here’s the deal. If you complain about it in your essays (actually, the way most people put it here is “try to explain”) you’re showing 2 things, both of which I think you’d be better of keeping to yourself. </p>
<p>First, that you expect someone (eg. adcoms) to make the world “fair” for you. That’s why people write the “explain” essay, because once the adcoms read about the unfair situation they’ll make it right (usually put as “not hold it against me”).</p>
<p>Second, and more deadly from the view of any adcom, is that “explaining” signals you see yourself as a passive vessel filled with what the world hands you. Get a great French teacher, you’ll do great. Get the unreasonable 60 year old teacher, what can anyone expect? </p>
<p>Well, here’s what. In this day and age there are more options for teaching yourself a foreign language than you can imagine. You can watch the classic “French in Action” for free online. Many colleges have entire French courses online on iTunes, also free. You could have shown leadership by setting up a study group with the other 3 kids to drill each other. The library has tons of workbooks, there are websites specifically set up to help self-learners, you can acess tons of streaming media in French, I can go on and on. </p>
<p>When you say “I didn’t get A’s because of an unreasonable & lousy teacher” you are telling prospective colleges that you don’t take responsibility for your learning. Sure, its better if an experienced and caring teacher guides you. But when the world falls short, you throw in the towel. Not what selective colleges want to hear. </p>
<p>IMHO, if you’re thinking about how to “explain” the French grades, the better approach is to hold your tongue.</p>