<p>I am trying to be as gracious as I can possibly be. I do feel that Cheers is assigning me thoughts, motivations, or intentions that I don't have or feel whatsoever and I will assume she has simply misunderstood me. </p>
<p>I would like to respond to a few misconceptions posted earlier.</p>
<p>One...
Cheers posted: "I was offended that sooze was espousing a certian path as a potential option for the OP's D--on the theory that it was so much more fun and an equal option for an architect. That simply isn't true and students consdiering the career chould know the realities."</p>
<p>I have NO idea where you got that from as I don't think I was ever recommending that the OP's D switch to a BA program at all, let alone that it was so much more "fun". In my initial posts to the OP, I recommended ways for her to build in breaks and time management and to seek studio mates as friends and take initiative to do something socially with them. I acknowledged the long hours that an architecture student puts in. My D has only ONE studio class this semester at RISD (not as many as the OP's D) and it takes LONG hours and she is down at that studio at this very moment and will be late into the night, after many hours already this week devoted to just that one studio course. She did an architecture immersion program this summer and knows the long hours involved. I never suggested that this other kid switch to a BA. I explained why MY D opted to enter a liberal arts degree program with a pre-architecture major (BA in Architectural Studies) because for HER, this was the right choice. Unlike a major such as history or theater where one has studied it or participated in it for years, she was not ready to commit to a field that she had only begun to explore. She wanted a liberal arts degree and has not even yet declared a major. She entered with a strong interest in going in this direction but is using these two years, plus the summer to explore, experience and discover if this is the career direction she wishes to go into. </p>
<p>An undergraduate education need not be career training. For many careers, including architecture, one can be professionally trained at the graduate level. Was I recommending this to the OP? Absolutely NOT. I was simply explaining where MY D was at and why SHE took this path for her undergraduate education. There was NO decision to become an architect when she was 17, only a strong leaning and interest at that point. She SURELY did not pick this path to have ANYTHING to do with being more FUN. THIS is the kind of education that SHE wants for this point in her educational career. She is not ready to only study one area. She likes many subjects. She wanted choices in her curriculum, not one already laid out for her. She wanted to explore many areas and also see if architecture is an area that she may want to pursue for the long term. She did what she could in high school to pursue it, took initiative to do a year long supervised independent study for credit that involved drafting, mechanical drawing, Auto Cad, wrote various papers for classes on architectural topics (in fact, studied Liebskind extensively whom you mentioned), and contacted local architects about an internship, had several offers, and did one with a woman architect who let her do actual architectural tasks for her, not busy work. Since getting to Brown, she has done studio foundation class, a few architectural history classes, and now a RISD class in architectural drawing alongside BArch and MArch students, and also did the six week intensive at Harvard Design School, using her own earnings from summer jobs to pay tuition to help her really try out an immersion in studio and she really does love the design projects. She is contemplating a semester abroad through other BArch programs. But she ALSO is on one varsity sport team (involving numerous hours per week and weekends) and a club intercollegiate team that travels. She was not ready to put all her eggs into a professional degree program at this time. THIS is what SHE wants to do. NOT because it is more fun but because it matches where SHE is at. I am not suggesting it to the OP at all. I also explained the various educational paths to becoming a licensed architect to those who were asking about that as many are not familiar with this. I meant that to be informational, not persuasive. I do not see one path as better than another, simply different.</p>
<p>I simply have no idea why you were offended or why you felt I was espousing a career path on another poster's child. I had no intentions of espousing it and in fact, think that BArch programs are terrific, but simply not what MY child wanted to do when she was applying to colleges, and had visited Cornell's BArch program just to be sure what she wanted for her undergraduate experience.</p>
<p>You wrote as if to imply that I thought the BA in pre-architecture followed by a MArch was an EQUAL path to BArch. I did not say that either. They are different paths leading to licensure. That's all. Some paths fit certain people's educational desires, some fit others. </p>
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<p>Garland wrote: "I actually have never heard Soozie advocate aiming for the top; I have heard her speak up for aiming to do your best at whatever you choose to do, which is not the same thing."</p>
<p>Thank you Garland, you know me better than myself....LOL...no really, you got it exactly right. </p>
<p>Cheers responded: "Sooze? Not advocate for the top? What, are you kidding me?"</p>
<p>A lot of your posts, Cheers, discuss becoming a TOP architect or owning a firm or in a major city, becoming famous, etc. etc. It is as if anything less is not worthy. It is just a perspective that I don't share and has elitist undertones for me. It is like saying, if you don't make it to the Ivy League, you arent a success. You gotta reach for the Ivies. It is like saying that a kid whose life is the stage is not a success if she does not make it on Broadway. And so on. I, nor my kids, tend to think that way. Both are highly motivated and driven to seek their personal goals. But I never really hear them talk so much as wanting to be at the "top", but do talk of reaching goals they set for themselves. My older D NEVER talked about becoming valedictorian, for example. It was never her goal. Her goal was to do her best in school to reach her next goal. She happened to be named valedictorian but reaching the top wasn't where it was at for her,; it was about doing her best and hoping to be able to do what she wanted to do next by working toward it. As well, she NEVER ever once said, "I want to go to an Ivy League school." She did want to go to a very good school that was challenging and had specific criteria she was looking for. She tried to find ones that were a good match and had a motivated student body with kids like her in it. In fact, just to show how Ivies did not trump other schools on her list, when she got into UPenn (which by the way has a BA in architecture) and was named one of 100 Ben Franklin Scholars there, she did not consider attending when she narrowed it down in April amongst her acceptances. In her mind in terms of preferences, Tufts and Smith trumped UPenn. She liked them better for HER. The "top" was not the goal. </p>
<p>My other D who you referred to.....she has had a lifelong passion for the field of musical theater, indeed, since nursery school. Unlike older D, she can SAFELY say at age sixteen that she knew what she wanted to major in and focus on in a professional degree program as an undergraduate (it really is akin to deciding to do a BArch degree because a BFA degree is declared before applying, is a commitment, has an outline of required coursework that takes up at least 2/3's or 3/4' of an undergraduate degree), but she knew she wanted it as she had done it enough to KNOW. With Architecture, my older D had NOT done enough prior to college to be ready to commit to a lifelong career and professional training program at seventeen. It was not a subject she had done enough with yet to say. She also did not have one singular passion yet. She has been a VERY well rounded type in every regard and still wanted to explore many things. </p>
<p>TO BE CONTINUED.....</p>