<p>I’m with Archiemom…it’s all part of the learning process. All you can do is listen and encourage if he ever decides to tell you. Change the password or don’t go in there!!!</p>
<p>I also have a freshman S. I have access to his grades, etc. I have not been on the site since September. I, too, was curious. I made a conscious decision not to look around anymore. He has to manage his own time and make his own decisions. If he makes the wrong ones, he will not be back at a school that he has dreamed about attending since he was a little boy. They all know the consequences. There in lies the lessons to be learned. </p>
<p>I do understand where you are coming from and you don’t want him to learn the hard way, but it is his collegiate experience and he needs to figure it out. He knows what he needs to do…I’m sure he will get the job done in the end.</p>