<p>Verdict is out with our s. He was home last week on break and indicated he would like to transfer to our local university next year. We told him no, to stick it out (three more years). This was his first choice, far from home and a very well respected university. His father and I have adjusted wonderfully. We finally have an empty nest, I got a full time job, after 10 years at home. We are hoping s will adjust after freshman year. He will have better housing options next year after a “forced triple”. He has many friends there and is doing well.</p>