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<li>Another post on topic of sociology and psychology of HS people :)</li>
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<p>I was shivering and feeling awkward each time someone suggested another person to go to a "relationship councelor" or "psychologist". I didn't know why but now I do :)
Then, I saw lots of "felt in love with a best friend post." And there was something wrong about those posts. I didn't know why but I now I understand )</p>
<p>What is a friend in my understanding? It is a person who I feel I can trust 100%. I know this guyl won't hit on someone I'm hitting on, I know I'm not going to flirt excessively with his girls. I know if my life is *****ed up, I will be able to disclose all the crap in my life to this guy/girl. I know I can share things with him/her that I'm myself afraid of even thinking about. It is very hard to find such a friend.</p>
<p>If I have some problems, do you think I am going to disclose them to some guy I don't even know about, who calls himself "professor of psychology" but has no idea about my life? Hell no! Do you think that if I have a crush on someone, if it's my female-friend, I won't tell her? ****, my friends know about girls I'm even thinking about hitting on, not to mention all that crapload of crap about current crushes we talk about.</p>
<p>Conclusion. If you feel like you need to ask a question about crush on your "Best Friend Forever" (what a word, eh?) or get some friendship advice from some guys you know nothing about except their nicknames, you need to reconsider your life and get a friend. And a life. I mean, people you considered friends probably weren't friends in real understanding.
QED.</p>