Friends are gone...

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<p>I know it sounds sappy and stupid or whatever, but I cant stop cyring because my friends just trashed me and left me for dead. it turns out they 'never' liked me, so now i dont have any friends. im a pretty tough guy (195 lb football player), so i cant act depressed all the time. me and my friends were all surfers/car enthusiasts, and something just blew up. In my high school, if you dont have a group or friends, youre nothing and i dont know what to do. anybody else have a school like this that can relate?</p>

<p>I hope ppl in ga are better than these people in nc...</p>

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<p>wow you shouldnt have to go through this during your senior year</p>

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<p>Your former friends sound like the worst kind of losers. I'll bet you can't wait to head off to college--hopefully, somewhere they're aren't going! You'll make plenty of new (and much better) friends in college, where most people have outgrown the petty cruelty of high school. Good luck!</p>

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<p>I think people should be a lot better in college. and it should be easier to find different groups of people.
there's only a couple months left!</p>

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<p>Yah i wouldnt worry about it too much, anyone who acts like that probably isnt worth having as a friend. Once you move on to college people will probably be much more mature and friendly.</p>

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<p>A question:</p>

<p>Where are they going to college?</p>

<p>I ask because often when someone is going off to have an adventure and they don't feel as lucky, not even sure if I am close on this, but they will push someone away first, knowing they will be left behind.</p>

<p>Not sure if this is the case, just a thought</p>

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<p>one's going to east carolina and one's going to community college
2 are in community college and the other 3 arent doing anything.</p>

<p>why would they not be friends with me and say the things they said just because ill be going away?</p>

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<p>I'll be your friend. :)</p>

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<p>i cant really relate but i can tell you i dont like my friends sometimes. if they're not gay they'll get over it in a couple of weeks and you will be cool again. if not, its not worth your time. find some better friends.</p>

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<p>jealousy...and sadness you are leaving....its kind of like when kids fight with their parents ALOT before leaving for college...</p>

<p>your friends should be able to handle it, but if they see you moving on, and they are kind of stuck, well, it can be hard</p>

<p>but don't let that stop you from doing what you want to do</p>

<p>they may come around</p>

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<p>if you're a tough guy you wouldn't be crying over this. Suck it up and make some new friends who are actually your friends this time</p>

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<p>man thats too bad, geez srry to hear that. :(</p>

<p>hope u feel better soon,</p>

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<p>it is okay to be upset and its normal</p>

<p>just keep busy...are you playing football in college, if so, train</p>

<p>if not, maybe get a job to fill the time....</p>

<p>also look around, you may see someone who is cool that you didn't pay much attention to because you were with the other guys</p>

<p>it will be fine</p>

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<p>The South seems so... conservative. When I watched movies like Greese, I hope to G-d that High School wound;t really be like that. To my relief, my New York high school was very lax, and even if one is a loner, the worse thing that happens is someone comes up to them to talk.</p>

<p>I'm sorry, and I can't imagine what it must've felt like. My best advice is to try to join new extracirriculars and meet different people -- people you haven't really considered.</p>

<p>Head up, the future is bright.</p>

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<p>I'm sorry, I feel your pain. I just basically ended my friendship with my (ex) best friend because she pretty much ditched me for this other girl and we haven't hung out in about 4 months.
It sucks a lot because it's senior year and I just wanted to spend it with my normal group of friends having fun but since that can't happen I've branched out to people who I used to be friends with but wasn't really close to so now I've been hanging out with them more.<br>
I hope things work out for you, whatever happens.</p>

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<p>gah friends totally suck. my friends totally left me for this really annoying girl, who ended up screwing them over something big.</p>

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<p>I know it's sad but this is how it works.</p>

<p>Try to be friends with a lot of people and don't just stay in the same "group" all the time.</p>

<p>It's way better to be friends with girls, coz they 'll never ditch you, lol</p>

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<p>well friends can suck sometimes.
but i'll be the bestest friend you`ll ever have
: )</p>