Friends With Benefits!

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<p>Okay, so I recently asked a girl that I liked if she was interested in having something with me during the summer. I then mentioned college and stuff. So, after much discussion we decided that the best way to satisfy both our desires was to continue hanging out, going to movies and other places, but do sexual things together, with I guess that being the main motive behind our summer together besides friendship. She is also like my best friend that is a girl, so we really want to keep that going, but just have a little fun along the way. However, she is a shy girl who has some, but not much experience in the sexual arts, and I thought this was interesting proposition from her.</p>

<p>So, does anyone have any experience with this? Do you think our friendship will still be easily preserved even though we are still engaging in sexual acts? Will it be fun and worth it?</p>

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<p>~70% of the time not worth it</p>

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<p>don’t do it. girls catch feelings. enough said.</p>

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<p>CC? HSL?? BOOTY CALLS??? ■■■■■ IN THE DUNGEONS!!! ya</p>

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<p>Pretty much if you want to stay friends. Don’t do it. </p>

<p>If you plan on marrying her. Do it</p>

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<p>do it, don’t listen to anyone else here but me.</p>

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<p>Okay so basically you like each other and want to go out together and sex will come as a part of it… The thing is, that sounds like any other relationship to me. Friends with benefits refers to just sexual acts without feelings and dating. Maybe I’m reading it wrong, but it sounds to me like you guys wanna go out just make sure you get the “most” out of your last summer before college.</p>

<p>99% of high school relationships have an expiration date. Sad reality. Will it ruin your friendship? That’s always a possibility. But you’re gonna be separating at the end of the summer anyway. Worst risk is getting too attached, but that could happen in any relationship you ever pursue. Your decision</p>

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<p>hit it and quit it</p>

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<p>I say do it.</p>

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<p>She’s telling you that she wants to do this, so there’s no reason that you shouldn’t proceed. Sure, she might get attached, but that’s something to worry about if and only if it happens. Perhaps she’s mastered the art of living in the moment. : )</p>

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<p>poseur…i saw that you’re going to brown…that’s awesome :slight_smile:
and yeah, I say have fun.</p>

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<p>Do it. That’s a winning opportunity.</p>

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<p>Do it. 10char</p>

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<p>if you really are good friends w her and you want to stay friends w her, then you should not do it. fwb will ruin that big time…
If you want to **** her brains out, then just date her, because the fwb thing can be very very awkward and tends not to work out. Dating her could be nice too.</p>

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<p>been there. done that. not doing it again. girls like to get emotional, needy, and attached. and then it’s not so much fun anymore. and of course this friendship of yours will be affected.</p>

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<p>Generally a bad idea.</p>

<p>HOWEVER, friends are usually the right place to go for eventual wifey material.</p>

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<p>I’m telling you don’t do it.
Girls catch feelings 95% of the time. She’s gonna want something more that you may not want, and when she realizes that she won’t get what she wants, good-bye friendship.</p>

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<p>Even if the friendship ends up “ruined,” that doesn’t really matter… you’re both going off to college and will prolly end up not keeping in touch either way, right? SOO get the most out of the summer, imo.</p>

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<p>Lol .</p>

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<p>If she’s shy, I doubt you’ll do much anyway.</p>