<p>Any guy here who has ever had a moderately attractive friend who is a girl has though about tapping it.
Have you though about who is paying for condoms, I’d say split it 50-50 cause 2 months is a long time.</p>
<p>you could just get them for free! thats what i do. the school hands them. but i usually make a big scene when i go (i’ll get one of my close guy friends and we’ll say we’re gay together just to get the crowd going)</p>
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Be realistic. You don’t need a locked bedroom to have sex.</p>
<p>Why is there a crowd?</p>
<p>ugh. you can’t just say, if she gets needy, tuck your tail between your legs and run away. in case people didnt read, the OP said taht she was his best friend thats a girl!!
i think theres a possbility that she secretly likes you but doesnt want to come out and admit it, so shes taking the best your offering her- friends w/ benefits…but you’re right. most likely, 90% of the time, girls DO get attached. sorry. its in our nature
so i’d say, either DATE her, or just move on and let her have her own life.</p>
<p>Don’t do it. I’m in a FWB relationship right now with what was my best guy friend. It sounds almost exactly like your situation actually. We’re both leaving in the fall and just wanted to spice up the summer. I’m the girl and completely admit to becoming attached. It’s been going on for 3 weeks, at first it was awkward, then not so much, then things got bad. My feelings for him were more than I hoped would happen and I don’t think they are as mutual as I would like them to be. In the last week, we’ve been in three arguements and nothing is as fun anymore. Speaking from the girl’s side, she probably will become attached and if you don’t want to date her, then don’t do it. You’ll hurt her, and most likely ruin the friendship.</p>
<p>EDIT: We never actually had intercourse, just all the “other stuff”</p>
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Read chronicfuture’s posts - he wanted a relationship, SHE wanted FWB.</p>
<p>I think she’s going to ■■■■■ out.</p>
<p>Garbear said she’s shy and has hardly done anything sexually before. I don’t think she knows what she’s getting herself into. FWB to her may mean lots of makeout sessions, but nothing more than that. I think she’ll be scared when she sees male genitalia.</p>
<p>^Hmm. I think hilsa has a point. I agree.</p>
<p>Hilsa: Now don’t go scaring off your gender. That is just setting a bad example for those that need to experiment. After all summer is upon us.</p>
<p>Also there is still time for you to join us in G-ville. You can even bring Mr. Blue Streak.</p>
<p>Wow. Story of my life.</p>
<p>Okay, time to clear things up. And as I can see, it is very much split. But, yes, she was the one who came up with the FWB idea, but I should probably mention this. Shortly after (we talk for like hours each night and text constantly), she asked me how far I was willing to go this summer. I, naturally being cautious, said whatever she was comfortable with and whatever she wanted. We then built up the idea that actual sex was a definite possibility and not against what we morally wanted.</p>
<p>dude, seriously do it. keep things on good terms with her so when you come home you will still have a hookup buddy.</p>
<p>seriously, best situation ever.</p>
<p>You guys are in a relationship anyway (from appearances)… I agree, you’ve got a great situation, go for it</p>
<p>Have some fun this summer! As long as you’re having protected sex and whatnot, you should be okay.</p>
<p>Chronic, are you guys at the point where you guys are very comfortable with touching each other? Like either incidentally touching or actually intentionally touching? Kissed before? If not, then you guys have to build that comfort in touching aka “kino” first.</p>
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Pretty smooth, you handled that well. I still say go for it.</p>
<p>I think we’re going to need some PICS. NOW. before this topic goes any further…</p>
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<p>PIITB</p>
<p>Origin: Comes from the teen forum at bodybuilding.com</p>
<p>Definition: Put it in the butt</p>
<p>**** no, anal is so bad, I would never do it. But anyway, if there is anyone who is going to get attached, it will be me! But, I’m not too worried to be honest, because I still maintain great friendships with previous girlfriends, except one.</p>