<p>“I don’t think you can pass up Harvard if you get in.”</p>
<p>LOL, logic 101: If you “got in” to Harvard, that means that you applied. IF you did not apply, then the comment above does not concern you, your S or your D. The writer is doing nothing more than paraphrasing a well known fact that Harvard has one of the highest yields (if not the highest) in the nation. If I had gotten off the wait list, it would have been a VERY difficult decision to make, notwithstanding full COA merit awards at state. :)</p>