<p>Cheers, I'm always happy to offer up one of mine :). That part is tongue in cheek of course, but based on my admittedly completely limited experience with raising children honestly the boys are easier, emotionally at least. But that's a topic for another day. </p>
<p>Although people who know my completely ecstatic feeling about Stanford and how good it is, it is really so worthwhile to visit both--and so easy to do both since they are an hour and a few minutes away from each other (except during rush hour). I have certainly heard some things about some coaches in some of the sports at either school that would keep me from making too general a conclusion that Stanford is better. Obviously I'm not getting any more detailed than that primarily because what I've heard is just that, hearsay. It really depends on the sport and the coach. Best of luck to her!!</p>