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@Jweinst1:
Look. I don’t know you. I don’t know what motivates you. However, based on what you wrote in your original post, I get the impression that your priorities are not a good match for a future career as a physician. That’s just my honest opinion.</p>
<p>Pursuing a career as a medical doctor is all about managing delayed gratification and making sacrifices. In my mind, it’s a calling. My med school friends who are the happiest now (several years after the conclusion of medical training) are the ones who love helping people…and would do it for subsistence pay. For a student at your stage to be asking about physician compensation in the way you have, it’s clear that monetary compensation is important to you. If that’s the case, choose another career. You’ll be much happier. There are better ways to make more money with less effort. Choose a different career, for example, in law, entertainment, or business/finance, that will enable you to send all of your kids to private school without taking out any loans.</p>
<p>FWIW, the way in which you phrased your question rubbed me the wrong way. I don’t believe that paying out-of-pocket for an education at a private college without loans is a reasonable expectation for most people. Affluent parents may be able to choose not to take out loans while sending their kid(s) to private colleges, but most of the middle class won’t have that option. And, to be honest, I see nothing wrong with taking out a modest amount in loans to pay for a college education.</p>
<p>Moreover, I don’t view a private school education as being a “right” for anyone. Private school. Public school. With the proper attitude/initiative/motivation/work ethic, a student can get a great education at either type of institution. I can’t say that I feel sorry for the heme-onc attending who describes her situation (paying for two kids at a private colleges) as “tough.” Many states have excellent flagship universities that present a more affordable option for college. There are many schools that offer significant merit aid. Her kids had options. In essence, she chose her current financial situation. Many people in this world are in a far worse financial situation than this physician.</p>
<p>This notion of physicians or other high-paid professionals having the “right” to make enough money to send all of their kids to private colleges without taking out loans smacks of an attitude of entitlement that I personally find distasteful.</p>
<p>That being said, I’m very sorry about what happened to your father. I can certainly sympathize with your situation and can imagine the effect that the experience had on you and your family.</p>
<p>Best of luck with your future educational endeavors…
I agree with you, dina4119.</p>
<p>When I was interviewing prospective medical students for the admissions committee at my school, I was shocked at the number of applicants who expressed sentiments similar to those of the OP. We would usually end up on that topic after discussing the student’s “possible specialty” and his/her perspective on “changes in the health care system.”</p>