<p>A problem with #2 above is, projecting yourself and her to spring '08, how hard it will be for her to attend to all of her college classes successfully, at the same time chasing around to many schools to audition. </p>
<p>To me, if you and she think she'll have a lot of time and opportunity to practice and train in a gap year, that could be such a wonderful year. She could learn so much, with complete time to focus. Is she very disciplined to take full advantage of it (I'm guessing so, since her Mom is kinda forward-thinking :) I always remember a line from an old movie about the life of Louisa May Alcott. Her Quaker mom just saw terrible things happening for the girl at high school (not your situation) and, try as she might, she could not effect change in the school situation, so began to think of pulling her out to let her self-school. But the mom had to work (a widow, I think) so couldn't tend to Louisa's workflow daily. The mom pulls aside Louisa, looks her straight in the eye and asks, "Do you have the discipline to handle this?" When the answer was a clear "yes" the Mom did pull her out of school, which is when Louisa began to write seriously...and apparently never stopped.</p>
<p>Would the gap year be from your home, or might she move to a location where some of the training pieces are in place in that community? I can see pros and cons, and only you can gauge her level of maturity. It's hard to just send a teen away, for example to work a part-time job and share an apartment, without any supervision. If she had a relative who lived in a bigger city, who might (for example) give her room and board in exchange for childcare part-time of a cousin...this might be the kind of approach that might safely put her into a place with more opportunities for the gap year.
If not, however, even if she's always driving far to lessons, she could really learn so much in a year with just performance training and no academic "distractions." Ooops, my priorities are showing.</p>
<p>My D really wanted a gap year badly, but couldn't take it after h.s. because she also wanted an ED decision and you can't have both. Now that she's graduating college, however, she really is longing for a gap year between college and grad school. One of my sons is considering a gap year between h.s. and college because he wants to get a BFA in writing. He has some wild and wondrous ideas about how and where to live before he heads off to school, so that he brings some "real" stories to write about in college.</p>
<p>I've heard consistently that it's too hard for actors to get stagetime in schools where they're in the BA program but there exists a BFA program at the same school. </p>
<p>Is there an affordable way to attend a non-degree program somewhere that might package all your trainings together better? I'm thinking (but this isn't the right program) of NYArts & Film, or for film production kids there's a place that Robert deNiro created in NYC where kids come and study there for 5 weeks, 2 months, or up to a year to learn how to make films. That's not the right program for your D's training needs, but I'm just wondering if that's a better way to get training, even if it doesn't count at all academically (ever). It might be worth a national search on Google. If you found just the right program for a season or a year, and could bear to send her away, that might be a school identity for her that would package the training better than driving to the nearest voice lesson and hoping for acting school locally...I've lived remote and rural, so I know how hard that can be. Maybe the year could be broken up into segments, with one part of it lived away from home...the point being, not to "get away from home" but just to make sure her year of training is best possible. If you end up piecing together local lessons, however, she'll also be able to live free at home and not worry about roommates or landlords, so much less distraction. Will she be okay when her h.s. friends leave the area (or will they?).
Anyway, if 95% of what's on HER (not your) mind for the gap year is "how can I get training..." then to me, IMHO, she's like Louisa May Alcott and coudl make excellent use of that year. I do believe that anyone so devoted and with a year to work up skills could get into those auditions NEXT spring with success, again, being flexible since there are never guarantees.
Best wishes. This is quite a journey, isn't it :)</p>