<p>My junior son is just beginning his college search. We have visited several schools already to get a feel for large/ small, public/private, etc. </p>
<p>So far we are looking up schools as we receive the school's literature (assuming these are coming based on PSAT or ACT scores). We know three things so far 1) school must be gay friendly, 2) prefers smaller privates (up to 3000 students) 3) must meet need (although we understand need is different at each school.</p>
<p>Would love to know what the atmosphere is for gay students.</p>
<p>Oberlin is one of the most gay-friendly schools that I can imagine. LGBT issues and identities are solidly within the mainstream here, and a substantial minority of the school is gay, lesbian, or bi. People are generally very aware of what it means to be gay and are open and supportive to friends who come out… it’s something that’s accepted, embraced, and not treated as a big deal. The college as an institution is supportive as well – there are plenty of out faculty members and administrators who act as informal mentors to students.</p>