<p>Response to post #3</p>
<p>Please keep in mind, this is just my opinion. I wish others would give their perspective, but most students are probably not on CC. I am because I am still thinking about transferring. So obviously, my perspective is not very positive.</p>
<p>(1) Travel to Boston: Plenty of students travel into Boston 1-2 times a week. Keep in mind, regardless of how many off-campus classes you take, acapella groups you join, or frat parties you attend, you are attending Wellesley, not MIT. Some days, you see as many students here wearing sweatshirts emblazoned with MIT and Harvard as Wellesley.</p>
<p>Alternatively, you can walk to the town of Wellesley. There’s not a lot to do there, but there are a bunch of places for coffee, ice cream, pizza or bagels. I rode my bike there often, whenever I craved normal social interactions, or felt the need to get away from campus. It can get claustrophobic here.</p>
<p>(2) Competition: There are no slackers here. Every student is extremely motivated to do well academically. No, not every student is cut-throat-competitive, but if you say you are tired because you were up till 2 am studying for a test someone will quickly say, “I was up till 4,” and another will say,“I was up all night, two tests and a paper…” Some of my classmates were great, supportive and would study together, others not-so-much. They’d arrive to class with their eyes glued to their phones, earbuds in, and would not socialize with other students.</p>
<p>The grade deflation policy just takes the competition up a notch. Everyone is used to working hard, and automatically getting an “A” for solid work. Now there are a only limited number of “A” grades available, so the pressure is on. You not only need to do “A” work, you need to do it better than most everyone else, if you want that “A.”</p>
<p>(3) Social/siblinghood at Wellesley? </p>
<p>Social: I am just surprised by how quiet the campus is. It can be more lively on special events, but on a typical day, the mood is quite somber. It just isn’t as relaxed, accepting and friendly as I expected. I am very serious about academics, but when I’m not studying, I like to relax and have fun. If you want to socialize at Wellesley, you can but you need to put some effort into it, and will probably need to travel off campus to find a party.</p>
<p>My roommate last year would only leave the room to attend class and eat. She studied at her desk late into the night and barely slept. I’m guessing she was pretty happy here.</p>
<p>Dating: I know a couple of girls who dated males from other schools, but nothing long-term. </p>
<p>Siblinghood: I arrived on the campus very “rah, rah sisterhood,” and was quickly admonished and told that there is no “sisterhood,” its a “siblinghood” now. I never thought about it that way, and felt badly that the phrase might offend some students. But I was conflicted: isn’t Wellesley a women’s college? Aren’t we part of the Seven Sisters schools?</p>
<p>On the other hand, I think that transmen are very much a part of our community. And, then I heard about a student who was rejected by Smith because she is a transwoman. That seems completely wrong. How could a women’s college discriminate against a woman? The transgender issue made me reconsider how I feel about women’s colleges, and I’ve grown disillusioned by the concept. Decades ago, women fought for and won the right to attend previously-all-male schools, so how can Wellesley or any other school deny access based on sex, especially an antiquated definition of “sex”?</p>
<p>4) Diversity: Yes, some students (myself included) absolutely have friends from different races, religions, sexual orientations, etc. That’s what I am used to, and probably why I found it disconcerting to see so many students flocking to the Cultural Groups. (Many campus events are run by these clubs, but not all. But there really aren’t many big, fun campus-wide events in general.)</p>
<p>Since Wellesley has such a diverse student body, I expected that we would celebrate what we have in common, our sisterhood, rather than divide ourselves into clubs that essentially segregate. I “could” join one, but chose not to. A Caucasian girl from my orientation group joked about starting her own club, and a couple of students turned on her and basically called her a racist. It was a joke, lighten up. Be prepared for that; it happens often.</p>
<p>5) Final question re: growing up: There is some truth to the “Wellesley Bubble.” There is some coddling, and I hate to admit it, but I really appreciated and needed it last year. Going away to school was a huge adjustment for me. But, I do worry sometimes that being in such a nurturing environment isn’t quite preparing me for the real world.</p>