<p>Hi there, </p>
<p>This may seem very rash, but I'm experiencing a whirlwind of emotions that was ignited from the news of receiving a new roommate, and I need some guidance. I'm feeling very fragile right now, but I just came from home and have class tomorrow and so can't go back until at least tomorrow afternoon. I'm so scared and upset, and to be embarrassingly honest, I really just want my mom. </p>
<p>I've had my dorm to myself since school started because my former roommate had to move out, but I received notice from a potential candidate that housing is going to assign me a new one and that this girl would like to come meet and talk to me to see if we'd be a good match. She seemed very nice on the phone and very thoughtful, but I'm still really nervous and scared to the point of maybe wanting to move back home. I know I'll get a new roommate eventually, whether I meet her or not, but I'm so distraught. </p>
<p>I had a reaaaally bad experience last year. I moved out after a semester because I was miserable with homesickness and because my roommate and I didn't get along. It was way awkward with her to the point of painfully awkward, and finally we both got to the point of not feeling comfortable in the same room. This didn't help my extreme longing for home and my mother. I moved out and I instantly felt incredibly happy and relieved. My grades got better, I lost the weight I had gained, my acne cleared up, my nightmares stopped; it was the best thing in the world. </p>
<p>Well, I really wanted to try staying here again. Everyone told me that I should try at least one more semester before I give up, so here I am. It's just my mom and I since my dad passed a few years ago, so that makes it harder, too. </p>
<p>Basically, I'm only spending about $800 to stay here for the semester. I have class 3 days a week and live at a commutable distance, but I'll have class 5 days a week next semester (plus it's very snowy and bad during the winter where I live). I really miss my mom and almost started crying leaving from home this afternoon. We may not be in the best financial situation, but I need and love her and just don't think I can handle being away. I'd also get some Pell money refunded if I move out, like a significant amount. </p>
<p>Sitting by yourself in a room is one thing, but being with another person you don't know very well is awkward. I feel like I've been living a lie by staying away. I don't think I can do it, and I'm so very emotional about it right now. Everyone else loves their time here but I'm just counting down when I can leave for home. </p>
<p>What should I do?? My grades are top priority and I don't want them to slip because of this. I feel like everything is spiraling down.</p>
<p>Thanks so much for reading.</p>