<p>My son had the same experience as mentioned by Interesteddad where he intentionally ditched a kid he was hosting because he did not want the kid next year at Swarthmore. I don't know the details but the poor kid went to bed at 10 PM....way too early for college. I didn't think it was right for him to do that but when was the last time an 18-year-old will listen to his mother?</p>