<p>Alright so I live in a freshman dorm. There is this one girl on my floor who is a bit weird. The thing is, she completely ignores me, even when we hang out as a group. If people say something to me like "nice shoes", everyone will look and agree or whatever except she will just stare at me expressionless. If I say something and everybody laughs, she will be the only one not laughing. It's not that she doesn't know me- our dorm group of six people hangs out really often. The only conversation I've gotten in with her was an introduction. I mean, she talks to and is outgoing with literally everyone, even the really awkward immature kid in the dorm (that no one really likes) who goes around asking the most messed up questions; this kid was hitting on her yesterday (lol). I don't understand- other girls who I've never met at all talk to me more than her. Help?</p>
<p>Probably had a crush on you.</p>
<p>Never live in the past but always learn from it.</p>
<p>Try adding her on facebook and see what happens.</p>
<p>She doesn’t like you. Some people on here are slow learners.</p>
<p>Dude there is nothing I’ve done to be hated lol. I added her on facebook and she accepted. School started for us September 7th. She’s been giving me the cold/expressionless looks ever since school started (in the halls, in the dorm, dining hall)- no smiles nothing :(</p>
<p>I never said hated, I said she didn’t like you. There are many reasons why it might be, might not enjoy your personality. The fact she accepted you on facebook is completely meaningless and it’s naive to think that reflects true friendship.</p>
<p>Hmm yeah probably something with my personality, although I don’t know why she would behave like that. I know of others she dislikes for cockiness, etc. yet she stills acts politely around them.</p>
<p>…I think its a little weird for her to dislike you if you’ve only ever had 1 real conversation. (The introduction) She wouldn’t have a good grasp of your personality from just that. Yet she seems to be making friends with everyone else. Unless she knew some of them beforehand she probably didn’t have much of a chance to get to know them either before she opened up to them. Personally, i’d be creeped out if a girl constantly stared at me like that when we saw eachother lol</p>
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<p>^Reminds me of this lol</p>
<p>She likes you dude. Classic girl attitude right there. She doesn’t want to say anything stupid in front of you in fear of making you dislike her. GO FOR IT BRO!!!</p>
<p>So I suggested we hang sometime. She just smiled and said okay. Then I left. I couldn’t tell if it was yes we should, or just like a nice way to reject me.</p>
<p>One of the things I’ve learned is that unless a girl really likes you and is also very gutsy, the guy has to make the plans or else it’ll never happen.</p>
<p>Try proposing an exact time/place to hang out with her see how she reacts.</p>
<p>Naah, definitely sounds like she doesn’t hate you.</p>
<p>trust me. seeing so many girls walk by in my residence hall who act so more friendly with the other guys on my floor definitely hurts. </p>
<p>i was slightly intoxicated one day (bad day, okay? 
- don’t judge me,) and this girl was sitting outside talking to me about how shes did not understand why I felt the way i did; how i wanted to be somebody else, etc; yet, i see her all the time time and she rarely even acknowledges me, but is friends with most of the other guys in the dorm.</p>
<p>idk if people are just trying to give white lies, they truly don’t understand that it sucks to be the person that isn’t liked. etc? i try to brush it off day to day; but at times it definitely gets old - like i swear if these people walk by and roll their eyes one more time as if i am somehow less important, idk what i’m going to do.</p>
<p>“Dude there is nothing I’ve done to be hated lol. I added her on facebook and she accepted. School started for us September 7th. She’s been giving me the cold/expressionless looks ever since school started (in the halls, in the dorm, dining hall)- no smiles nothing”</p>
<p>I am amazed at how much people lack patience for people they “don’t like.” it’s like sorry i was ever born. do you want me off the face of the earth? maybe i should be an astronaut :)!</p>
<p>it’s like; i was born; i did not request to be born - well that is kind of complicated as my biology led to my inception (fertilization); however, people should have sympathy / understanding for who you are; we can control our actions for the most part, but yeah.</p>
<p>Okay, I’m on the other side of this dilemma (when I first read this thread, I was all, “Snap! Is this him???”). I’m the girl doing the ignoring.</p>
<p>Just don’t be creepy or anything. Don’t follow her around. Do your own thing and don’t act like she’s anything special. Because the guy following me around is doing all that, and it’s creeping me out. I’m going to need a restraining order or something…</p>
<p>Wow that’s cool you invited her to hang out and she smiled and said “okay.” so that must be good
If she didn’t like you she’d most likely have said “I’m actually kinda busy” and not smile!</p>
<p>Personally if I liked a guy I’d really try my best to be noticed by him and talk to him a lot xD. I’ve even asked a guy for his number (which…didn’t turn out well…lol but hey now I won’t always wonder “what if.” xD)</p>
<p>But some girls are shy so maybe she finds your good looks intimidating lol!</p>
<p>Yeah I think things might be going good (hope I don’t jinx it). She said hi and then my name to me in the hallway for the first time ever. I know it’s not a big deal but coming from her, she who has never talked to me first, it’s pretty ground breaking hahaha.</p>
<p>If I were you, the main thing I’d do is be obvious, but not come on too strong. Anything less than obvious = creepy.</p>
<p>Next time you see her, say hi and try to propose a date. Ask her if she’s doing anything later that week, and if not, offer up some solid, tentative plans (i.e. coffee at 3pm, pool table at 7pm). There you go: you’ve now asked her on a date.</p>
<p>If she says she’s busy and offers no alternatives, she’s not interested. If she offers an alternative time, that indicates interest. If she brings friends, she probably sees you as a friend.</p>
<p>^ Yeah I need to do that sometime. Yesterday she saw me without my shirt and was very impressed (but then again most girls are haha). She offered to teach me dance so maybe I’ll take her up on that offer.</p>
<p>I think she likes you now
She probably was just shy at first but since you talked her first she probably doesn’t feel as shy anymore.</p>