Girl Problems

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<p>Hey guys-I'm a long time lurker but first time poster</p>

<p>There's this girl I really like. We're really close friends ... but thats the problem: she only considers me as a close friend. Not only that, she is a senior (im a junior) who has a boyfriend who I get along with. Their personalities are pretty much exactly the same and everybody says they are a great fit, including me.</p>

<p>I dont want to be a **** and break up their relationship but what can I do to cope with this? Its really been bothering me for the last few days...</p>

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<p>uhh, just be friends...duh. why go into a relationship like that? first it will be very awkward, and dude, it's January, she's gonna be gone in like 5 months! Control yourself and find other girls.</p>

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<p>Get another girl and try to make her jealous. If that doesn't work, then she doesn't like you and you shouldn't be with her.</p>

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<p>^that's a really, really bad idea. she has a boyfriend, she'll be leaving for college...
even if she does like you, the jealousy thing could just make her assume you don't like her...</p>

<p>and it's really unfair to the other girl.</p>

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<p>so should i just enjoy her friendship?
its what i was planning to do</p>

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<p>Yes, that is what you should do.</p>

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<p>You know what you do? Give her hints and then ask her to the prom. If she says no...then...that sucks dude.</p>

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<p>^ thats the thing - she has a boyfriend and im pretty sure she would go with him</p>

<p>i dont want to breakup their relationship either</p>

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<p>o...then sit back, relax, enjoy the show. Dude dont worry you'll get over it.</p>

<p>If you dont then she was ment for you and you'll end up together.</p>

<p>ALSO go out with just you're guys friends and hunt for some girls. It's fun and you're guaranteed a number...unless you're ugly...but CC people are very pretty people so...GL</p>

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<p>thanks for your help</p>

<p>i guess ill get over it
funny thing is, i was gonna ask her out when i just found out she got a boyfriend</p>

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<p>lol my ex is getting back at me by going out wiht another guy. she thinks i'll get jealous. but she can't be more wrong</p>

<p>I didn't like her because of her narcist personality. she thinks she is a goddess or something. and her trying to show me how well she's doing and what kind of guy she can get just makes me dislike her even more.</p>

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<p>yeah the girl i like isnt like that. it just makes it even harder to resist.
anyways, im just kinda ****ed off about this right now.</p>

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<p>OK, so trying to make her jealous is a bad idea I suppose. I guess I don't know much about relationships.</p>

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<p>number one cure. play CS</p>

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<p>CS as in CounterStrike?</p>

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<p>yes. it works...most of the time. I played for three days straight wihtout any sleep adn I ended up hating the game...I had quit for almost 5 months until my friend made me play again...it was FUN.</p>

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<p>yeah me and my friends used to play that pretty much every day but we started playing football now</p>

<p>i was just talking to her on aim right now. shes trying to get me to go with someone for sadie</p>

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<p>sadie hawkins dance - relient k</p>

<p>good song lol</p>

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<p>ok...go here <a href="http://www.intellectualwhores.com%5B/url%5D"&gt;www.intellectualwhores.com&lt;/a> and READ at 'ladder theory.' REALLLY READ IT!!!</p>

<p>unfortunatley u're apart of her friends ladder--she sees u as a 'brother,' not as a 'boyfriend.' im sorry, but despite what other romantics may claim, it is virtually impossible to go from brother to boyfriend, especially if ure a younger guy and she has a bf. just focus on getting other girls dude, bc nothing wrothwhile will come out of waiting for or pursuing this one.</p>

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<p>haha
i remember my friend showing me that once--i lold when i first saw it
somehow it doesnt seem so funny now</p>