<p>If he plays with your emotions, don't let him get to you. Because if you agree to stay and he thinks you're "secure" again, then he'll just go back to his old ways. Just remind yourself how much you want this</p>
<p>Absolutely zante!He's called 5 times in the last hour,I'm not playing hard to get but I'm kinda playing it safe for myself and allowing him to know I'm not mug.I know this sounds cocky but I'll do what I want when I want!!!!
Gosh I feel like such a ***** sometimes,but I guess it has to be done.I just wish I wouldve found this out along time ago.
You seem to be my hugest help zante, have you always been like this?</p>
<p>Been like what? Intruding in other people's private lives? Absolutely :p</p>
<p>No, but it's just that decisions made for short-term happiness seldom make you happy in the long run. If you stayed for him you wouldn't be happy with yourself, and that will reflect badly on the relationship, and then you won't have a good relationship with him or yourself.</p>
<p>Very true zante!!I meant are you always this helpful to people?By the way what time is it in New York?</p>
<p>No, I'm sure a lot of people find me annoying :)</p>
<p>It's 2:18pm in new york.</p>
<p>Just a question, a lot of you have been talking about "giving up ballet for your boyfriends"</p>
<p>Is there something about ballet that guys dont like?</p>
<p>My girlfriend does ballet and I'm not sure why I'd ever ask her to stop....</p>
<p>Is it just because it takes too much time?</p>
<p>Yea I don't really understand why you would give ballet up for someone. It takes so much commitment and after you reach a high level, aren't you throwing away years of training? Plus, guys have to appreciate that you're more flexible right? :p</p>
<p>Well my girlfriend has talked about the detrimental physical impacts (for guys) of doing ballet over a long course of time......hahaha</p>
<p>I'm just wondering if that's what you guys are talking about too.</p>
<p>Is it really that severe?</p>
<p>I was accepted into the Royal Ballet school with the Top grades and I was informed that when I turn 21 I could join the Russian Ballet.This meant I would have to leave home and him behind and I guess he just felt left out at the time,now I see that it was him just being selfish...as always.
Well we'v been split up now for a little bit and I'm actually enjoying myself,Im liking the freedom.And guess what zante?This really nice lad asked me to go the pictures with him (a date) bloody 'ell I couldn't believe it......so I went.We had a really fun time but I told him I didnt want a relationship just yet and he was fine about it. :-)</p>