Girls... be honest here.

<p>How many times a day do you get hit on, notice a guy is interested in you, etc?</p>

<p>Post a numerical value and explain a few instances where you know a guy is interested.</p>

<p>GOGOGO.</p>

<p>why don't you hit on girls?
What are you waiting for? A sign from god to start?</p>

<p>Um, I don't really pay attention to it that much... I'm not going around looking to see if guys are checking me out when I walk past them. I get hit on by random guys whenever I go out like on the weekends and stuff, because I actually put effort into dressing up and wearing makeup and stuff that I don't do normally. I don't pay them much attention though, cause alot of the time they just creep me out.</p>

<p>girls actually don't get hit on that much. lol. unless they're super dressed up, or if the guy is a creep.</p>

<p>Almost every day that I walked home from school I did. But they were just creepy men in cars. Well, and a couple of times they were by their house, and they started walking toward me so I got out my cell phone and walked as fast as I could.</p>

<p>I can't tell sometimes though. Like recently, I was at the store waiting for my friend outside the dressing room, and this guy came along and every time I stared somewhere, he would walk and stand where I was staring. He did it like 5 times, but I wouldn't make eye contact so he went away.</p>

<p>And sometimes I'll make eye contact with a guy accidentally and he'll smile, but I assume its because it was awkward for us to look at one another.</p>

<p>I never get hit on when I'm with a group of friends though. However when I'm alone its as if I have a tattoo that says "I love freaks" across my forehead.</p>

<p>See it's a shame because everyone a guy "hits on" a girl or just starts talking to a girl randomly, or just in some other way show interest, the guy is (usually) dismissed as "creepy". Wait, so girls don't want spineless guys who never make a move and yet...they don't want guys who show interest in them? Am I missing something here?</p>

<p>Wait, so girls don't want spineless guys who never make a move and yet...they don't want guys who show interest in them? Am I missing something here?</p>

<p>Maybe it's just me, but I've never gone on a random date with someone just because they stared me down in public or threw me some cheesy pick-up line. Generally, I think most people get to know one another more casually (i.e. having a class together, being in a club together, etc.). It also seems a lot less random if they go to your school and just approach you than it does if they're just some random guy at the mall. I also don't equate "showing interest" with "hitting on". Telling me I'm hot isn't the same thing as striking up a conversation and trying to get to know me.</p>

<p>guys stare way too much. i was eating lunch the other day and this guy kept on looking at me, following me with his eyes or whatever as i got up etc. i would much prefer it if someone just came up to me and said "hey, i'm so and so.." cuz staring is just weird.</p>

<p>We need pics for reference here.</p>

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Wait, so girls don't want spineless guys who never make a move and yet...they don't want guys who show interest in them? Am I missing something here?

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<p>That sounds about right. Not that the girls that never make moves will ever know anything about having a spine.</p>

<p>"We need pics for reference here."</p>

<p>haha, werd.</p>

<p>The types of instances I'm talking about is when a guy will generally make a "cat call." Asking me to get in your vehicle with you and you're 3 other friends isn't cute. If a guy introduced himself and stuff then I wouldn't have a problem, but its mostly just staring or making perverted comments. </p>

<p>If I think someone is attractive I'll give a quick glance and be like "he's hot/attractive/cute" in my mind or to whoever I'm with. I don't stare though, it is creepy.</p>

<p>Me...almost everyday especially at school. Like the other ladies, I have random guys trying to get with me even when I am not even dressed or look my best. They say the stupidest things. i think it would be best if guys did it in a more casual way as some people described. Not while you are walking down the street or they are in their car. It is annoying and funny at the same time.</p>

<p>Agreed with wutangfinancial. What a dumb question.</p>

<p>Wait, so Girls think its creepy and weird if guys try to hit on her but they want them to do that at the same time? </p>

<p>okayyyyyyyyy. 0_0</p>

<p>No, girls thinks it's creepy when creepy guys hit on them.</p>

<p>How do you know if you're that creepy guy?</p>

<p>Flirt with a girl and find out. :)</p>

<p>But then she'll think you're creepy no matter what.</p>

<p>Why? It's not hard to not be creepy. Just don't be creepy.</p>