<p>girls can be cruel. the girl i like (who, imho, likes me back) is trying to make me jealous by flirting with my best friend. i'm very good at reading people's body language, so i can tell she has the hots for me. presuming this is true, how can i make a move on her without destroying my friendship? my best friend and i are on the verge of having a fist fight for the sake of this girl- but being the mature young men that we are, we are fortunately able to hold ourselves back before any harm is done. this is typical teenage stuff, so someone must have gone through this before. please let me know which approach works best, ok? what worries me is that her playing hard-to-get is out of character...it's a bit of a turn-off but i believe in the phrase "love is blind." however, this is not really an issue of whether i "love" her or not as much as it is about my wanting to be with her. my best friend stands in the way, and that's unfortunate.</p>
<p>Friends are worth a lot more than girlfriends, trust me. In 10 years your highschool buddies may still be on good terms with you, dunno about your girlfriend though :p. </p>
<p>Anyways, its not worth it. She's just playing hard to get. Forget it and let it drop.</p>
<p>Ever heard of a threesome. JK. But u should talk to ur friend, and tell him how u feel. If hes a good friend, and he also believes ur theory, then maybe ur fairy tail would happen. But at least handle it in an educated manner.</p>
<p>knuck if u buck</p>
<p>girls arent worth getting into it with your best friends... always choose friends over girls because its likely that you keep your best friends for years and years... maybe the rest of your life, but girlfriends have a tendency to end up being nothing... once youre done with her you wont ever talk to her again, but u would have lost a great friend that you would still have. talk it over with ur friend... but if shes bein such a *** then forget her shes worthless.</p>
<p>Bros over Hoes. No female in highschool is worth it.</p>
<p>forget the girl lol.</p>
<p>Solve everything neatly by declaring that you will not go out with anyone, ever, where 'ever' means 'until i go to college.' Very convenient too.</p>
<p>she sounds like a weirdo
she just likes the chase</p>
<p>I have a friend that had this happen to him. He went out with this girl behind his best friend's back. They fought for a long time. But eventually things didn't work out between he and that chick. He and his best friend eventually became best friends again, but seriously, if this chick is being like that, she's not worth your time or all that trouble. If she has to play games, then she's just in it for her own pleasure of being desired by you two and also being able to toy with the both of you.</p>
<p>Coming from a girl, even i would say dumb her. I would never let a boy come between my friends and I. They should be friends, not lovers. And if you all do go out. You risk that she may cheat on you with him...it happens.</p>
<p>Fight your buddy and prove a point. Make sure she's also there to see it.</p>
<p>lol... ^ good idea... make sure u hurt ur buddy, but get a bloody nose or something, sympathy is good</p>
<p>This just proves that she is a dumb *****. Hit it & quit it.</p>
<p>what is all this talk ' broes before hoes' thats garbage do what you gotta do kick ur buddies ass then forget about her cuz shes a jumpoff</p>
<p>btw im not bein serious .....completely</p>
<p>does she know you like her? maybe she's doing it to find out if you really do.</p>
<p>My question is, why do like a girl who treats you badly? Okay, I can imagine some reasons, but do you think once you go out with her, that suddenly she will be loyal to you? Do you think you could trust her? Do you think you would always wonder about her when you aren't with her? Do you think she would lie to you? Could you handle her flirting with other guys and hearing that she is? Think about that. And, if she is playing two friends against each other like that, is that someone you really want to be with....she is playing a game, loving the drama, and can't wait for you two to come to blows, as a former teenage girl who has teen Ds, I have seen and heard it all.</p>
<p>She is working you both, and obviouslly, it can't be that much of a turn off if you are still interested. </p>
<p>Think about this, do you really like this girl who could care less about your feelings, or do you just want to get her and not let your friend get her?</p>
<p>I think its funny you are blaming your friend for being in the way...she is already separating you and you don't even realize it.</p>
<p>Just be warned, that if you win her, she will continue her games. Why not? You don't seem to mind and accepted it. Thats how she will see it.</p>
<p>wHAAA?</p>
<p>Uh, about the girl. Ignore her for a while. Just let things cool down. Watch a Clint Eastwood movie or the Dirty Dozen. Be a man. Try not to think about her too much, and if she continues to flirt with your buddy, forget her. Let him have the spoils. You'll find someone better.</p>
<p>i just wish she hadn't done this...it will be hard for me to let her go, as i actually care about her. i want to clarify something, though. she's not the promiscuous type, and that's why i said it was out-of-character for her to be toying with my friend and me. to her, it's probably no big deal but to us, it is. what if her attraction to me is all in my head, and what if she ends up with him if i let this go? i don't know if my friend sees the value in our friendship. maybe his feelings towards her have blinded him, i don't know. he has never done this to me before (or maybe, the way he sees it, i'm the bad guy). it won't be easy, but i guess i should prepare myself to lose them both. </p>
<p>thanks for all the advice guys.</p>
<p>lol bros over hoes. sounds like a gay slogan to me. lol just kidding. yeah i agree, its better to save the friendship than to gamble on a girl</p>