<p>Well what do you consider staring? Whenever I see a girl that I can tell puts a good bit of effort in her appearance, and looks good as a result, I don’t just glance at her and hurriedly look away in fear of offending her. I usually look for 2-4 seconds, maybe even try to make eye contact and flirt a little.</p>
<p>
</p>
<p>
</p>
<p>10characters</p>
<p>Yeah, girls are much more predisposed to get attention. They love it. I don’t know why.</p>
<p>If I’m seeing my girlfriend then yeah I’ll make myself look good, but if I’m just going out to the store for some milk I don’t really care how I look. Whereas a woman, regardless of whether she’s single, going out, engaged, married etc tends to at least gussy up a bit. Nothing wrong with it but it’s true. They like feeling pretty.</p>
<p>If Baelor’s a ■■■■■, he’s one of the best ones I’ve ever seen.</p>
<p>I say look at whoever you want in public.</p>
<p>I also say if you want to fantasize and masturbate to that person’s image later, then hey, you’re like most functional people in society.</p>
<p>I mean honestly, why be so uptight. People check each other out from time to time. An event where some creepy weirdo is ominously leering at some chick with a vacant stare and a hatchet in his hand for a full ten minutes might happen one in a million times but I don’t think that’s what we’re talking about here.</p>
<p>Every one of you is a product of sex and ejaculation - humans are sexual beasts by nature like every other species in the animal kingdom. Get over it.</p>
<p>I can understand why a girl who puts her cans on display might get upset when she catches a less-than-attractive man looking at her cleavage. Maybe you should pat yourself on the back for still being attractive because you’ll be wishing you got that kind of a attention again when you turn 35 or 40.</p>
<p>
</p>
<p>Peter, I am honestly disappointed. I thought I could get some kind of laugh out of your particular brand of smug craziness but all it does is make me vaguely sad and irritated. Go outside, enjoy some sunshine, and do try to make some friends.</p>
<p>That was mature.</p>
<p>
</p>
<p>I definitely meant the glancing/complimenting. But I think the line between creepy and “omg is he checking me out” is more of a matter of if it’s an attractive, non-creepy appearing guy or some, as you said, middle-aged fruit. </p>
<p>I think there’s some definite misconception going on in this thread. Of course everyone will agree that a middle-aged man staring at a 20 year old’s cleavage or saying “nice ass” walking down the street is whack. That’s common sense. But no college girl is going to be offended or creeped out if an attractive college guy is looking at her flirtatiously, especially if she’s dressed to exhibit that kind of response. And if she is offended, well that’s a personal problem.</p>
<p>
</p>
<p>No, you! :)</p>
<p>^^Yeah, it goes both ways, though. When a 50 year old woman wearing a leopard spotted fur coat grabs my butt and says “Ooooh, the young ones’ are much more firm!”, I’m creeped out too.</p>
<p>
</p>
<p>Has that actually happened?</p>
<p>Honestly, gawking at people is rude. It doesn’t even have to be sexually-motivated; in American culture, it’s generally impolite to openly stare at strangers, especially when you do it so intensely that the other person can’t help but notice. I’m surprised that this is even controversial. </p>
<p>It shouldn’t matter what the other person is wearing because if you’ve passed the age of, say, 12 you should be able to control the way you behave towards other people to the point where even if she’s wearing a low-cut top you can notice it without your eyes popping out.</p>
<p>
</p>
<p>I could never be with a girl who needs loads of time to get ready. My girlfriend takes 10-15 minutes to get ready. I find it more attractive when a girl doesn’t have loads of makeup on and doesn’t wear wears skimpy outfits.</p>
<p>I think there is a small misconception about looking and staring. There is a nothing wrong with a guy checking out a girl and vice versa for 2-4 seconds. But beyond that, I would consider that a little creepy.</p>
<p>^^^^ Nah, I dunno if she’s just slow or likes to take her time, but she doesn’t wear make-up and is actually very pretty. But I agree, that I find girls that don’t wear make-up to be very attractive. If you can’t look good with out make up, then I doubt you would look good with it…IMO.</p>
<p>
</p>
<p>Exactly. I don’t understand why some girls think more makeup makes them prettier and the shorter the skirt makes them more attractive. I don’t know if we are in the minority or not, but I don’t find it attractive at all.</p>
<p>It does get pretty annoying when girls are always staring at me. I guess it’s my own fault for wearing clothes that show off my muscles but I just wish that girls wouldn’t eye **** me every single time I go out in public.</p>
<p>I’m kind of surprise in some of you guys reaction. I always thought I get at least a quick stare at me, I would feel good myself knowing that I’m at least decent looking. What else do you all want us to do, just look away and have your self-esteem lower? Beside, is that how we get boyfriend/girlfriend, we see each other attractive in personality and appearance. Beside the staring part, I thought it would be compliment to be look at. That just in my opinion.</p>
<p>i think some group polarization mixed with hurtful sarcasm is abound…</p>
<p>vast majority of the posts in this thread have been by males (supposed males, you never know who is which gender on the internet) criticizing against some supposed phenomenon the girls commit.</p>
<p>How is it that the guys (the VAST majority) are creating their own theory (about women, mind you) and running with it while the few women (the minority) who respond (and can actually give us the truth about this topic because they are women and this has to do with women) totally disagree with them?</p>
<p>Isnt it kind of lofty for the guys to say “oh, i know what the women’s problems are!” when you’re a guy and your not even listening to the few women that are bothering to even defend against this nonsense.</p>
<p>woot, 200 posts!</p>
<p>
</p>
<p>I don’t know if you read the whole thread, but the bulk of the girls that posted on here agree. Nobody was ever creating a theory. The main question was if girls have a right to complain if people are looking at them. Most girls on here agreed that girls don’t have a right to complain.</p>
<p>
</p>
<p>If you saw the movie Visioneers you would learn how weak and wrong all of us really are.</p>
<p>Visioneers, Visioneers, Visioneers, Visioneers, Visioneers, Visioneers, Visioneers, Visioneers, Visioneers, Visioneers, Visioneers, Visioneers, Visioneers, Visioneers, Visioneers, Visioneers, Visioneers, Visioneers, Visioneers, Visioneers, Visioneers, Visioneers, Visioneers, Visioneers, Visioneers</p>