<p>I've only had two serious girlfriends so far in my life yet the two of them could not have been more different. My first girlfriend was a very sweet and lovable lady. The two of us were so comfortable with each other that we could do pretty much anything together. My current girlfriend of about two month is also very sweet and lovable but we aren't as playful with each other. My first girlfriend loved it when I came up from behind and hugged her and swung her around me. She loved it when I did corny stuff like surprising her by covering her eyes then asking her who she thought I was. She always enjoyed sitting on my lap so whenever she stood up I would pinch her on her butt and she would make this adorable giggling noise. Among other things, we also loved tickling each other, sharing food, and feeding each other. She loved it when I treated her like a princess by opening the car door for her or pulling out a chair so that she can sit down. Also when I go to kiss her by her ear instead sometimes I make this farting noise and she seemed to love it. I think you guys get the point that we were a loving playful couple. Now I try some of this stuff on my current girlfriend and she doesn't seem to like it. She gives me this weird look that kinda says, "what the hell are you doing" haha. I think she's just more serious than my first girlfriend but anyway girls would you like a guy that does some of the things I do?</p>
<p>//Also when I go to kiss her by her ear instead sometimes I make this farting noise and she seemed to love it.//</p>
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<p>Is this even a serious topic?</p>
<p>I think my ramen v. hot cocoa topic was more serious than this.</p>
<p>I’d say you are a romantic guy, so maybe your new girlfriend doesn’t like that?
And yeah, I do. I read alot of classic romance novels, so I’d say I’m pretty romantic. Different girls want different things though !</p>
<p>I’d say your first gf had a decent guy.</p>
<p>EDIT: The farting noise is kinda weird.</p>
<p>uh, i dont like that kind of stuff at all ughh, i’m more of a subtle romantic. plus you cant expect your new girlfriend to act the same way, shes a diff person, pretty soon im sure youll find other cool stuff you guys can share maybe even on a deeper level than your other gf.</p>
<p>Realize that not all girls are the same. Some love that kind of stuff. Others like me, don’t. Occasionally, it’s cute, but it really gets annoying if it’s not welcome. Get to know your girlfriend better and then you’ll begin to understand what she likes and does not like. </p>
<p>Don’t assume that tactics on your old girlfriend will work on your current girlfriend. You should surprise her with things based on your experiences and knowledge of her. </p>
<p>I understand how you’re wondering about why you guys aren’t as playful with each other. But personally, I’m not big on the whole “sappy couple” thing. I like it when guys come behind me and hug me, but definitely no swinging. It’s cute occasionally, but I’d rather just talk with the guy I liked during school hours. I like sweet, confident, and mature guys (haha…hard to come by these days…) and sometimes the whole swinging around your girlfriend/guess who?/…ear ‘noises’ comes off as immature if done excessively. Your current girlfriend might not be comfortable with PDA so cut down on your playful habits a tad :]</p>
<p>And like sapphire_ocean, I’m more of a subtle romantic too. Your girlfriend might just appreciate the little things rather than the big showy displays of love.</p>
<p>Well, I guess some girls are less into that stuff than others. They are totally different people, so that’s normal.</p>
<p>ROFL @ the farting noise</p>
<p>Not everyone likes the same thing.
And as a girl, I would run like hell from you. I hate being touched, so you would be my walking worst nightmare.</p>
<p>***? Forget high school relationships. Just 9 months of poo tang. Weird…</p>
<p>No girls like a wussy.</p>
<p>Everything except the farting sounds seems like fun.</p>
<p>I like a little bit of that stuff, but too much of it would get annoying really fast.</p>
<p>No farting noises. But other than that it would be fine.</p>
<p>Um I would have dumbed you after the first farting noise. That is NOT cute. Your new gf is probably just a little more mature than your past one. Stop the noising, butt pinching, and swinging her around. The hugs are cute if done in moderation and the guess who thing is overdone and so middle school. Just find things she likes. She isn’t the same person as your last gf.</p>
<p>Do whatever you feel like doing, within reason, regardless of whether you think she’ll like it or not. She’ll like that you do what you feel like doing, and that will make her feel that she can do what she feels like. So if your a hugs and kisses type of guy, if you persist with it in a fun way, she’ll eventually learn to like it, and it will set up a better dynamic than if you just change to conform to what she seems to like.</p>
<p>i’ve never been into guys like that. as a previous poster stated i’m more of a subtle romantic as well. i feel like throwing up when i see couples being all sappy together, especially in public.</p>
<p>uhh the first question that comes to my mind is why didn’t your first relationship last? and all girls are different. i’m the type that likes a guy who does corny stuff to make me laught while some other girl may not like it. i’d advise you to break up with your current gf and get a girl that you can easily bond with</p>
<p>Well if she’s still serious, that probably means she’s not ready to get touchy just yet. You probably came onto her too quickly and she’s not comfortable with it. To answer your question, I like guys who are cute without getting too touchy. Holding hands, hugging, arm around me is good enough.</p>
<p>Thanks for all the replies. Let me just clear up a few things first. I listed all those playful things in succession to emphasize that we were a compatible couple that could have a little fun. By no way did I mean to say that I performed those actions daily or even frequently as some of you have assumed, but rather I would do some of those things during appropriate times. </p>
<p>Many of you have mentioned that the farting (maybe that’s not the best word) noise is kind of disturbing or gross and I can understand why but it was something I did to cheer her up when she was down. Furthermore, I can see why many of you may think that my first girlfriend and I were too playful from my original post but that’s not true. We have serious conversations, kiss, etc like every other couple but the reason why I posted this thread in the first place was to learn if most girls enjoyed having some fun once in a while because my current girlfriend does not at all. </p>
<p>I don’t know, I just feel like I’m not as connected to her as my first girlfriend. To be honest she kind of boring and has a dull personality but she a wonderful person though and I do love her. From what I gathered in this thread, I can see that half of you do not like this stuff at all and the other half like it to some moderation.</p>