<p>OK, So Im a COLLEGE student. i know i shouldnt be posting here. but you guys openly discuss ANYTHING. I'm in one of the fraternities in my school, and fraternities have events every once a while (semi-formals, formals.....)</p>
<p>So i was thinking about asking a RANDOM girl on street (from my school) to one of my fraternity events. people always talk about this but very few people actually try. I thought it'd be a very unique experience if I do it. I was thinking about going up to a pretty girl who's sunbathing on the Lawn and say:
"Hey Miss. This may soundkind of lame and random, but you just completely grabbed my attention for being the cutest girl i've seen all semester along. I was wondering: may I have the honor of escorting you to my fraternity's Casino Formal....?"</p>
<p>will this work?</p>
<p>something about myself: I'm Asian, 5'8 :(, not nerdy at all, with a very minor accent. i dont know if i'm goodlooking or ugly. you can PM me for a picture if you think my l0ok will serve as a major determinant of her decision. my school is filled with attractive girls, mostly caucasian.</p>
<p>"Hey Miss. This may soundkind of lame and random, but you just completely grabbed my attention for being the cutest girl i've seen all semester along. I was wondering: may I have the honor of escorting you to my fraternity's Casino Formal....?"</p>
<p>i dont think so...i dont want to be mean but it sounds so outdated...you might want to be a bit less formal...:)</p>
<p>+</p>
<p>be proud of who you are...girls dont like guys with inferiority complexes :)... be confident..and yeah, be yourself...and i am sure she will say yes....</p>
<p>I would instead say "Hey you're pretty cute, would you like to go to my fraternity's Casino Formal with me?" Short and to the point :P The power is in the delivery though.</p>
<p>Be confident! Don't apologize for being "lame and random." That's a major turn-off.</p>
<p>If I were the girl you asked, I would be weirded out if you said that to me. Is there any possibility that you could have something of a conversation before you ask that question?</p>
<p>no conversation. i want it to be COMPLETELY random and the selection will be ENTIRELY based on look. that;s the FUN part--it's not like asking one of my friends/facebook friends/classmates, it's asking a girl i've never ever seen..........</p>
<p>so i modified it to:
"Hello, I think you are really cute, i was wondering, may i have to honor of escorting you to my fraternity's casino formal?..."</p>
<p>i think the nerdy usages of "honor" and "escort" are the cute part. i dont know if it's true.</p>
<p>Dont worry about the confidence, i'm realllly confident when i talk.:)</p>
<p>I like Freddy's idea, but I also like the "Hey Miss." :)
being a little formal is different though, every other guy starts off with flirting inconspiciously with a little conversation and then trying to casually invite her . . . actually I like your orginal line too:</p>
<p>"you're the cutest girl I've seen all semester long"
is more flattering than
"hey you're pretty cute"</p>
<p>I think she'll say yes, especially if you're confident, as long as she doesn't have something else to do the same day</p>
<p>alright how about this ||</p>
<p>Hey Miss. This may soundkind of lame and random, but you just completely grabbed my attention for being the cutest girl i've seen all semester along. I was wondering if you'd like to go with me to my frat's casino formal...?"</p>
<p>I know some girls think the lame/random thing is stupid, but I think it's cute in a nerdy/geeky way . . . if you looked good and said that to me, I'd go</p>
<p>As a female, yep, I'd have to say I probably wouldn't go with someone who apologized for asking me out by denoucing his own action! (If he apologized if I looked busy, fine, but that's different.)</p>
<p>I suppose finding a random girl might be a good idea. Id personally go for a girl in one of my clubs or classes. Or maybe a girl in your sister sorority? </p>
<p>pm me a pic, and ill tell you if your look will play a major part in her decision.</p>