<p>NeedAdvice, did I but in? I was just responding to you telling me that it's easier said than done... blah, blah, blah.... I don't give two ****s what you do... but I do know that all people will have to face their reputations at some point/multiple points in their lives... and that's just a law of life.</p>
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Well, sure, some people won't. But a lot of people hecka do. And, I've caught my bf lying about calling another girl "honey" too. It something stupid over the internet, but I found out. People lie...and people say "sure there's no relationship without trust" but blah. I love him, he loves me, and we have both lied to each other. It's just easier to draw boundaries and such, but in reality things are not that lucid.
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<p>Well I guess if you're the sort of person to cheat, you can't be too mad about your partner cheating because that'd make you a flaming hypocrite. There's always open relationships, I guess. For the record I think that about 90% of the people out there lie about a good amount of things (not just relationships) and are just ***** people in general. I have little reason to trust anyone and that's probably why I'll end up a cat lady. =X</p>
<p>What reputation? I never cared much about marriage, and never wanted to get married anyway. You make it sound like marriage is the most important part of life. So there's not much to lose out on...live for oneself, not for another.</p>
<p>when there are difficult words that i cant spell i just throw it in word</p>
<p>i feel superior that way to people that spell simple words wrong like "definitely" and "separate"</p>
<p>im allergic to cats.</p>
<p>I think I creeped Ben out too much. Teheheheeheh</p>
<p>ooo that's by far the most, well selfish thing a person can say. This world gets nowhere with that ideology.</p>
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Well I guess if you're the sort of person to cheat, you can't be too mad about your partner cheating because that'd make you a flaming hypocrite. There's always open relationships, I guess. For the record I think that about 90% of the people out there lie about a good amount of things (not just relationships) and are just ***** people in general. I have little reason to trust anyone and that's probably why I'll end up a cat lady. =X
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<p>Nah, my boyfriend has done far worse than me with strangers.. he started dating at age 7, seriously .Open relationships are splendid. haha, cat lady? Trustworthy people are hard to find, but someday youll probably find someone to love, whether in love or not, it's all good.</p>
<p>what's the most selfish thing a person can say? i missed it</p>
<p>regardless, if ur a girl and allergic to cats, that's just odd. you have issues. maybe even an eating disorder</p>
<p>lol did I spell those two words wrong. I suck at spelling.</p>
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This world gets nowhere with that ideology.
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<p>Pity it's what capitalism is based on.</p>
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What reputation? I never cared much about marriage, and never wanted to get married anyway. You make it sound like marriage is the most important part of life. So there's not much to lose out on...live for oneself, not for another.
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<p>When did I talk about marriage? I think most of my posts have been about relationships in general... marriage or no marriage, relationships involve emotions and reputations.... the longer the relationship, the more of one's time (the most expensive commodity we have) is spent... so if the time is not spent honestly, and with true intentions, then it can eventually come back to bite you... or not... depending on your own perception of the situation. Nevertheless, hurting somebody with lies and deceit will never feel good, I don't care how many excuses you come up with, the reality doesn't change, and the pain is real.</p>
<p>Yes but underneath capitalism are the families supporting it. Cant use that NeedAdvice</p>
<p>needadvice - have you ever considered getting couseling? This is not meant rudely and you are certainly allowed to have and express your opinions, but given your history...it might not hurt. And this is not meant to offend or anger you or put you on the defensive. And I realize that I dont know you and blah blah blah, but...</p>
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Nah, my boyfriend has done far worse than me with strangers.. he started dating at age 7, seriously .Open relationships are splendid. haha, cat lady? Trustworthy people are hard to find, but someday youll probably find someone to love, whether in love or not, it's all good.
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<p>That was surprisingly warm and fuzzy. :-p</p>
<p>I do hope we are not all referring to the idea that you live your life for yourself and not others as the 'most selfish thing a person can say'. I don't want to define myself in terms of someone else, thanks.</p>
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When did I talk about marriage? I think most of my posts have been about relationships in general... marriage or no marriage, relationships involve emotions and reputations.... the longer the relationship, the more of one's time (the most expensive commodity we have) is spent... so if the time is not spent honestly, and with true intentions, then it can eventually come back to bite you... or not... depending on your own perception of the situation. Nevertheless, hurting somebody with lies and deceit will never feel good, I don't care how many excuses you come up with, the reality doesn't change, and the pain is real.
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<p>I guess, but he has done stuff too. Is that a sort of "biting" in the ass? Its like two peas in a pod: act alike, think alike, yet they want each other still and screw all the other peas. Anyway, I think it's an open relationship now...last time I asked, he said he didn't know if we were together or not , yet we are extremely, extremely close.</p>
<p>I would never consider for one second being in an open relationship (or cheating), and I'm one of the few that are actually waiting until they get married to have sex. It's easy to see that we have drastically different views on relationships.</p>
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Nah, my boyfriend has done far worse than me with strangers..
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<p>Is a guy giving himself a "stranger" (the Chapelle show stranger) considered cheating? LOL I love the Chapelle Show!</p>
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Yes but underneath capitalism are the families supporting it. Cant use that NeedAdvice
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<p>I'm surprised you didn't say the MALES ONLY supporting haha. I don't know about families, but I say competitive individuals and entrepreneurs.</p>
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needadvice - have you ever considered getting couseling?
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<p>Nah, every person has had problems in their life. I don't think mine are a big deal....and I dislike how peope make themselves out to be victims, because everybody has some sort of baggage.</p>
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That was surprisingly warm and fuzzy. :-p
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<p>haha</p>
<p>when i'm bored i think about the purpose of life</p>
<p>i never came up with a good answer</p>